I think alot about sex and its getting me in trouble. what can i do so i wont think bout it alot.?

Question

after having sex and a few minutes passed i think about having sex again. something must be wrong with me. is there something i can do or take so i wont thint about it much.

im 28 yr old male.

Answer 1

go get your self a labotomy, and have your testicals removed.

Answer 2

It sounds like you have too much time on your hands. Get involved in something physical, like mowing the lawn, going for a long bike ride, rollerblading for an hour or so, playing several games of basketball, or other such activity. While there's nothing wrong with making love, it needs to have balance. Too much of any good thing isn't good for a person. Besides, think of how selfish that is. You're not allowing your loved one to have much freedom, with you demanding much of their time. Do something for someone else. Get outside yourself. Put someone else's needs first. Volunteer at an animal shelter or at your local Habitat for Humanity chapter. Once you find a balance, you'll notice that what was once always on your mind has found a less prominent place in your life. It's not that it's no longer important, but it doesn't rule your life anymore. And that's true with any habit, whether good or bad. You just need to redirect your energies and do something else. Actually, denying self is a good thing. It shows strength and character, and the ability to put things in their proper perspective. So, while you're not necessarily warped or weird, since this seems to bother you, try one or all of my suggestions and see if that doesn't help. Do a lot of self-talk...telling yourself that you need to focus on other stuff. And while you still might think about it ocassionally, just don't act on it. Do something else. I'm sure you don't act on ALL of your thoughts. If you did, maybe some people would no longer be walking this earth! So, you DO have control over your emotions & thoughts. A thought only becomes an act when you do something about it. When you find yourself thinking about something that you want to control, change your thoughts and go do something constructive. Dwelling on it will only wear out your determination to control your life. <*)))><

Answer 3

Nothing is wrong with you. I too am the same way, I just have a lot of sexual energy. It's natural, plus if you're young like in your 20s to early 30s, your urges are natural because you are at your prime. It's the animal instinct within us to find mates and have sex. Just be safe when you do.

Answer 4

How old are you. When I was like 17 and 18 I used to think about sex all the time (and have lots of it) there is just lots of chemicals and hormones racing through your body and brain all the time. We can stop then (but you could take prozac).

It's one of those things. I go through stages all the time when I just want to have sex all the time. Mainly because I'm horny and it feels great. Just have lots of sex and masturbate often and eventually you will reslove back to your normal self

Answer 5

Engage yourself in the other thing that is most interesting to you after sex. Moreover if you masturbate, you should have some control over it and gradually stop it.

But to tell you a piece of advice, this thing is not gonna hurt you anyway. It would have been great if you could have provided some information as to how this thing gets you in trouble

Answer 6

For sure you need to develop a sense of self that is not dependent on having someone else holding you.
Get some real interests and make yourself happier in life and sex won't consume you.
What about choosing to actually love people in general by doing helpful kind things for no reason?

Answer 7

well you may just be doing through a stage....i think at times when we are not ingulging is sexual acitivity we may think about is more especially if we have been sexually active but we are not anymore....well i wander really how old you are because that would make a real big difference in my answer... whatever you do make sure you have save sex... your hormones just may be going overboard....well it is easier to say just to try not to think about it but it does not work.......unless you just keep pushing it out of your mind........if in time this does not go away maybe you should see someone a doctor or a counselor but i do not think i would at this time...i just think we go through stages and think things like this... i have a girlfriend that has a boyfriend and she talks about what they do and it makes me think how nice it would be to be with a man that realy cared about me...i believe unless you really love someone or care for them a great deal it is just an act for satifaction.. i do not think it is making love unless you do have feelings for him or her.....i think you will be fine and i think you are just normal.....but do not let it overcome your mind and sense of doing right...i hope this has helped you some and hope you will take some of the answers that are given you serious but some you should just block out of your mind....some people just give off the mind smartass answers and i do not think you deserve that or anyone else...i do believe it is a stage and it will pass but you can help it by keeping busy on other things and keep pushing it out of your mind....good luck....

Answer 8

alot of people do that that why people have sex more then once in a day you just have a high sex drive if you feel the need to go again and the person your having sex with is willing to then please your need there s nothing wrong with wanting more sex once you don't want it all day everyday

Answer 9

Find an opposite sex partner that is just as obsessed as you and be safe. There is nothing wrong with you!

Answer 10

Keep busy by having more sex

Answer 11

The thinking about can lead you to act it out. Good advice is to hum instead. This stops the thinking.