I had a friend that I would spend time with everyday but then she moved and I kinda got a little frustrated. Then people at school started calling me bad names and then I became a popular person but then I said I dont want to become popular but then when I got to school the next day because they were the ones that called me bad names and I just wanted to scream. They posted flyers on the wall that said that I shouldnlt have any friends! Then everyone ignored me the rest of the year! what should I do?
2006-06-13 04:00:07 · 9 answers · asked by spunkydancer101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
make some online freinds
2006-06-13 04:01:54 · answer #1 · answered by Rachit Sood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you happen to know WHY the others at school started to call you bad names? What were the names they were calling you? Did what they say have any TRUTH to it? If NOT, then they have gotten the wrong impression of you somehow and are calling you names based on lies.
You should just be yourself and try not to let the name calling get to you. I've always found that to HAVE friends, you have to BE a friend.
If there is someone in particular you want to get to know and becomes friends with, whenever you see them say "hi"...make a compliment on what they're wearing, their hairstyle, their success in a class, whatever. EVERYONE likes to be complimented...just don't be fake about it.
In the past I have made cookies or some other baked good and shared them with folks I wanted to get to know. EVERYONE likes a sweet snack and it's a great ice breaker too. Like, "hey guys, I made a bunch of cookies this weekend and brought them to school to share...would you like one?"
Just be the type of person YOU would want to hang out with...and treat EVERYONE fairly. Don't judge or call OTHERS names like have been done to YOU. Those that appreciate your consideration of others, thoughtfullness and sincerity will respond to you and you'll soon have LOTS of friends.
2006-06-13 04:11:43 · answer #2 · answered by PacificDreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate people like that. Maybe they're jealous or something. but whatever you do, ignore them. They barely know you! You'll find a friend someday. Whether in lunch or class, make acquaintances that appeal to you. Talk to them a bit. Get to know them a bit more. There'll be a person you'll like and the more you do things togethe, the closer you'll become. And be nice to the nice people no matter what. Act as if they did nothing to you. Be friendly! You could be great friends. But don't go too close with backstabbers and stuff, they are trouble. TROUBLE I TELL YA! And don't worry, don't take their words seriously, you are nicer than them unlike them. You have a better more worthy quality than what they have. And keep in touch with your friend. E-mail me if you have any more questions!
2006-06-16 10:09:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are jealous. Ignore them and try making friends with someone new at the school.
Sometimes if people know they are frustrating you, they will continue. This is how some people get their kicks. Don't let them know they are frustrating you. Laugh with them.
Remember: To have a friend, one must be a friend--kinda like the golden rule.
2006-06-13 04:08:39 · answer #4 · answered by lidipiwi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to yourself for awhile and when the next school year begins - find some quality people. They may not be popular - but they're probably decent people who won't drop you as a friend. Maybe volunteer to show the new students around - since they're new, it will be easy to befriend them, and they will stick with you. Good luck!
2006-06-13 04:05:54 · answer #5 · answered by Lo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet those people(the ones that put up the flyers)after school
AND YOU NEED 2 BEAT THAT A**
just playing maybe u should email me
so i can be on a more serious level
2006-06-13 04:11:28 · answer #6 · answered by Tramor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them but next year make a great comeback, just try to find real friends, if they left you they weren't really your friends.
2006-06-13 04:08:51 · answer #7 · answered by Nancy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you, a drama queen?
Seriously: People can see your other questions, you know. You need to think more before posting.
2006-06-13 04:08:48 · answer #8 · answered by M Huegerich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people can call u bad name but just be yourself the kind of friend u need will locate u soon
2006-06-13 04:08:17 · answer #9 · answered by supreme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋