Everytime i go to a party there are always guys looking for a one night stand. However, I've always been a good girl so im definitly not going to do a one night stand, thats just trashy and not classy. Why are guys like this and when will they start looking for good girls?
2006-06-13 03:53:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
When they are ready to settle down. The guys you are running into are young, immature and still sowing their wild oats. Why else would they be at a party? If you want someone serious, you should look outside of parties.
Good luck!
2006-06-13 04:02:58 · answer #1 · answered by sideshowbytheseashore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is one thing for yourself to say that a one-night stand is "trashy" and "not classy," but it another thing to say that it's "trashy" or "not classy" for another person.
As you get older, you may start to realize that not all one-night stands are "trashy" and "not classy," and some fill particular needs and are harmless and perhaps even beneficial for a person or a couple of people.
It is enough to say I should think that one-night stands are only human, and it is also something to say that your desire to stay away from them is human. To each his own. Furthermore, not all guys are like what you describe, though there may be a handful. Perhaps to your surprise, as it is to mine, there are handfuls of women just like these men.
2006-06-13 04:21:27 · answer #2 · answered by Beeeen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've found they start looking for good girls somewhere around the age of 25. I guess that's when they start to realize there's more to life than Sex. But there are still a lot of jerks that are much older than that... My boyfriend, who is 27 (I'm 19), has pointed out more than once that dating older guys is better because they tend to be looking for commitment. But the downside is that everyone thinks you're a slut looking for a sugar daddy
2006-06-13 03:59:33 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica Anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. Yeah, guys like that might not ever START looking for good girls. That's not the kind of guy you want to be with - Good guys hang out at places you find good girls... Not really at parties - hope this helps
2006-06-13 03:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by jev50 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. The last one night stand I had...ended up being my wife. dated her for 6 years been married for two. I guess you can say, I turned a bad girl into a good girl. Or vice versa!
2006-06-13 04:54:42 · answer #5 · answered by adamswain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys want sex all the timeso it's up to you to decide if you want to supply it, if your attactive guys will talk to you but most of those guys are the ones just there to pick up girls. my advise would be to just have a guy time and you'll find guys that are having a good time, go to parties with the mindset to make friends not find a boyfriend.
2006-06-13 04:06:53 · answer #6 · answered by verticalmule 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are definitely looking for a nice guy at a wrong place,...nice guys don;t go out where there's booze drinking,smoking,playing poker/dice,basically parties that make you ask your morals. Nice men go to their local church organised singles bible study clubs,they go traveling(hiking,mountain climbing,sailing,pilgrimages),they hang out in libraries,the may be spoted volunteering for a greater cause, they are around their families because they're family man and that's an awesome husband trait to look for.There are other ways they enjoy their time but definitely not where theres lust/immorality.
Good luck on your search.
2006-06-13 04:03:12 · answer #7 · answered by I-C-U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys like that will look for a good girl when they are ready to marry...but they will likely not ever give up their ways...i dont think casual sex is always a bad idea, just be sure you know the person enough to know if it is just about sex or also about the pleasure of your company.......
2006-06-13 03:57:41 · answer #8 · answered by susuze2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women look for the same thing.
2006-06-20 03:37:04 · answer #9 · answered by jacdog61 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So are you available. : ) You need to watch out for those guys but not everyone is like that.
2006-06-13 03:57:07 · answer #10 · answered by Human 2.1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋