2006-06-13 02:57:45 · 16 answers · asked by Rohit 2 in Dining Out ➔ India ➔ Chandigarh
How you express your feelings is the normal way; write her a poem, send her a flower, eat lunch with her.
Whether you should court her is another matter. First, there isn't just one woman in the world for you. If your parents had moved 500 miles when you were 6 years old, you would have found someone else.
If you fall in love, marry and have children, whose holidays are you going to celebrate? Yours? Hers? Both? None? What are you going to say when your children ask you who is right, Mother or Father? What do you say to your children when you go to the Mosque every Friday and she goes to the church every Sunday? (Or temple or synagogue or whatever building your two religions use, on the day they worship as a group.)
There are inter-faith marriages, but they fail much more often than marriages between people of the same religion, and they have more problems even if they don't fail.
2006-06-13 03:10:16 · answer #1 · answered by Gene E. Ologist 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you feel about her, despite her religion. If you like her, then, for one, respect her religion and make sure she respects yours. Then you can feel better about getting to know her as a person. My friend is a devout Catholic but fell for a Muslim girl, and they made it work. He shares his religion with her and she shares hers with him, and even though they didnt change their religious beliefs, they know, understand, and respect their differences. Religion is a very important part of who someone is, but you also have to go beyond that and see who they are as an individual. If youre not sure about how you feel, take some time to get to know her anyway, and even if nothing happens, at least you will have gained a close friend. If you dont like her, then thank her for her honesty and feel flattered that she cares for you as a person. Tell her youre sorry you cant return the feelings, but you hope that wont damage her friendship that you enjoy.
2006-06-13 03:08:37 · answer #2 · answered by icee369 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one thing religion is one of the biggest things that people have fights or debates over. i Belive that if both of you have feelings for each, you need to sit down and talk things over and 1. see if either one is willing to convert. 2. see if you can put religion aside and just get to know each other. 3. if religion is the biggest thing in your life, then let her know right away, so that you guys don't get hurt in the long run.
2006-06-13 04:19:00 · answer #3 · answered by Dawn R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats something u can get an answer to only after self examination...how important is religion to u? wht abt ur family? wil they accept it? more importantly, how important to u is ur family's acceptance of her?
similarly she needs to answer these ques for herself...
if both of u r sure u can make it work, and if u feel ur families wil support u, then go for it!
but if u think ur families' wont support u, and if tht deters u..then call it off before it goes any further and causes u more hurt..ther r lot of women of ur own religion and similar backgrounds who u cud b happy with.
2006-06-13 03:17:30 · answer #4 · answered by qmbored2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man, go talk to her straight, feelings has no religion.
If she likes you, she'll definitely be yours.
Forget about religion, leave the word "religion" for politicians. They are good at this.
We are humans and let us remain humans.
2006-06-13 03:00:52 · answer #5 · answered by sandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If religion plays an important role in her life and she can't date anyone of other religious views, then it's up to her, whether follow her religious principles or human feelings. You shouldn't feel yourself uncomfortable in your wish to reveal her your feelings. Whatever happens next, you'll get rid of this uncertainty.
2006-06-13 03:06:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is blind. It doesn't recognize color or religion. If you like her, ask her out. If your religion is that important to you then let it go. Remember God is always watching you. He doesn't favor one religion over another.
2006-06-13 03:33:14 · answer #7 · answered by toyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try it. Relationships between people of two different religions never work.
2006-06-13 03:00:10 · answer #8 · answered by MrTayL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you can't be with her if she's from another religion. not that i am against those of other religions, but mine teaches not to date them. therefore, i suggest saying you appreciate how she feels, but nothing can happen b/c of your religion. i've done it before...trust me. it's fine. God bless you and take care!
2006-06-13 02:59:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change over to her Religion - that will impress her.
2006-06-13 03:04:54 · answer #10 · answered by fatsausage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋