I think my girlfriends cheating on me!! is there any way to find out what texts she`s been gettin on her phone

Question

she`s gettin text alot but is very secretive about her phone!! i need to get access to her sms history, any ideas??

Answer 1

firstly before you try snoop around ask her! seriously ask her that you are concerned about her texts and the fact hat she's secretive about it. i mean i hope she really IS being secretive with the fone and tht you are not just over reacting. but if you are sure then yeah go ahead and ask her. bacuse there must be a reason.
if she has nothing to hide then she wouldnt b acting that way. ask her in a way that says you are troubled, upset, and concerened and NOT as if you are accusing her.
secondly, if after asking her she says no dont be silly, but you can tell she is blatantly lying to you (if you are in a good relationship you'd have known by now wen your partner is lying), give it a few days, maybe she'll realise she's hurting you (if she is cheating and break it of with the other person).
but if the texts still keep coming THEN go look in her phone. check her inbox, read msg thats sent at odd hours in the night/morn. go to her sent messages, and read HER textx too. to make sure shes actually in it too and that its not just her getting harrasing texts buy some guy.
if the worst case scenario comes, confront her when you find anything not right, and dont worry about her using the "you looked in my phone??!" defence. Her cheating is more criminal than you snooping in her inbox.

PS if you dont find anything and she is innocent in this whole drama and it turns out that it is just you who is being paranoid... you have some making up to do - take her out or buy her flowers chocolates etc.
cuz if my boyfriend acused me of cheating i would be very upset, cause one he clearly does not know me for i would not do such a shallow thing and two he does not trust me. so please make sure you're sure before you point the fingers. just thought id put in a girls perspectiv.
well, hope thats helped a little.
good luck.

Answer 2

I don't think that delving into her personal space is the way around this. If you think she is cheating you need to talk to her. Ask her to be honest. You might want to say 'Are you happy,' or 'Where do you see us in a years time.' There is usually a reason why someone would cheat, and why a partner would feel like there other half is cheating.
What are your reasons for suspecting this. Has she become distant, or is it just her hanging onto her phone that makes you suspect? If it is the latter, I would let her be. It could be that she needs her own space within the relationship, and that she has a life beyond you. I don't mean that in an unpleasant way, but I have my own mobile phone and my partner has never even touched it. We respect one anothers privacy, and trust each other.
That leads me on to think that the phone is not the problem. There is a big lack of trust on your part. Perhaps you had a bad relationship before and you are just waiting for things to go wrong. Perhaps the only thing you can think of is that she must be cheating because she gets a lot of texts.
They are probably just texts from her friends and believe you me, us girls talk about things and go through things that we want to share with other women.
Take her out and clear the air. Whether you know it or not, your feelings and suspicions are creating an atmosphere and it's very hard to see things clearly when you are inside the situation and thinking about it all the time. Take her somewhere special, let her know that you don't want to lose her, but you feel she has something on her mind. Say that you are here whether or not she wants to talk about it and respect her decision either way.
Prying into your girlfriends phone will only end in tears either way. If she finds out you have, she wont trust you, and whether she cheated or not this is not the way forward.

Answer 3

You cant. Next time you're with her at her house take her phone when you leave and wait to see what texts come and check the sent messages etc. Do not answer it or reply to texts and hope the batterie wont die. If you do not find any evidance you will probably have to bin the phone unless you're brave enough to try sneak it back. Or just confront her to save all the messing. Do something, whatever it is sooner than later and good luck.

Answer 4

well if you phone up the network she is on and talk to customer services u can access her history via password but you may need to get a girl to do it. all you need to say is that you have accidentally deleted your numbers and your texts and that they had important numbers or the texts had an address that you desperately need they will send it out in the post and that way you can find out who she has been texing and what she has been texting. hope that is of some help. good luck

Answer 5

Tell her your phone isn't working and ask to borrow hers. If she won't let you near it, then you're right to be suspicious. She may also have a pin code on her phone so you won't be able to see her texts. Try getting hold of it when she's asleep or in the toilet or something. You could also swap the sim cards and put hers in your phone without her knowing, then read the texts as they arrive?

Answer 6

sounds to me your being jealous and a bit controling and pocessive over what she can and can't do based on your own approval what your asking about is considered an invasion of privacy and she does have the right to have her friends i also feel you may not entirely trust her key question is how would you yourself feel if she treated you this way

Answer 7

well when she put it down to go take a shower or when she go to bed b/c i know she do not sleep with it or put it in the shower with her just read her texts and that how u can find out

Answer 8

Just ask her if she is cheating on you. If she says no just trust her, if u cant trust her, then get rid of her. Don't fart *** around with all the secrets, it aint worth it, trust me

Answer 9

ya gurl need space so give it to her and if you really like her than dont be so jealous and what do you mean by girlfriends with an s

Answer 10

Just ask her and if she doesn't look you straight in the eyes, she is lying. Good Luck