i just broke up with my boyfriend a week ago because of all the thing that my mom say is wrong with him but after i broke it off with him im having more feeling for him now then i ever did and the bad part about it is that the boy is 18 years old and im 15 years old and he never had a girlfriend and he still a virgin (wich i want to take it from him so bad) but i cant go out with him any more because of my mom. should i just leave it like it is and find another boy to kick it with or get back with him?????
2006-06-13 02:33:56 · 16 answers · asked by sunny_alabama 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
and by the way i do have this other guy on the side that i think is really cute and he tries to hit on me alot but im not sure if im making the right choice
2006-06-13 02:38:34 · update #1
Hey, you are responsible for your own situation in life - and not your mum.
Explain the reason for the break-up to your boyfriend - and tell him, that from now on, you'll rather listen to your heart than to mum's voice. He surely will understand.
2006-06-13 02:36:25 · answer #1 · answered by swissnick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost the guys a virgin for a reason and the statement i want to take it from him is not a statement a fifteen year old should say however i am going to take your side if you really like this guy and i mean really you should try and make your mom see what a good guy he is
2006-06-13 02:37:14 · answer #2 · answered by skits 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mom is probably right. Thats the most annoying things about parents is that usually they are... sometimes it just takes a few years to figure it out.
I had my parents tell me about folks that were good , bad or indiffernet. They turned out to be good judges of character as I look back on things... boy there were a few close shaves that they saved me from.
On the otherside of things your 15 and sexually active... Becareful... for one thing your under age... if you did have sex with this guy he would be having sex with a minor and could go to jail for that. (I dont think he'd thank you for that). Secondly are you protecting yourself. Please make sure you do. 15 is way to young to end up with a kid or some thing that itches doen below... Try explaining eith to your Mom.
Finally talk to your Mom, make sure you understand how she feels and she how you feel.
2006-06-13 02:40:31 · answer #3 · answered by Panther 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably think you like him even more NOW because NOW he's back on the market and this may bring feelings of jealously on your part. Just listen to your mom. She's probably right. Just don't let her dictate who you go out with when you're 25 -- there's a limit to mommy's advice! Good luck!
2006-06-13 02:38:42 · answer #4 · answered by jasmicsgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, Moms really do know best. If your mom doesn't think you should date him, you shouldn't go against her just because you want to take his virginity. I say, leave it. Find another guy. There's plenty.
2006-06-13 02:37:52 · answer #5 · answered by xtragicallyxbeautifulx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too young to be so in to boys. your mom is correct to slow you down. you are gonna be a used up ho if you keep going at the rate you are going. FOLLOW YOUR MOMS ADVICE.stay away from boys OKAY! She means no harm. she is trying to save you from being a tramp. because that is what you sound like to me. ps i was a virgin past 18 and I am a girl. you should respect your body alittle bit more. really. you sound like a NASTY SKANT!
2006-06-13 02:38:35 · answer #6 · answered by yogishwife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave this alone. This is not a safe idea. And you wanting to take him to bed concerns me. NOT A GOOD IDEA. Leave it alone. And you know - if you mom says no that means no. You are not an adult just because you like one YOU ARE A CHILD. It's your mom's job to look out for you and until you are a real adult what she says goes!
2006-06-13 02:36:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it seems that you want him for the wrong reason. To be his first should not be the reason you want him so bad. You are 15 anyway. You need to mature more because you are still a child yourself.
2006-06-13 02:39:18 · answer #8 · answered by N N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you look like a cutie their. but any way sweety you are 15 i would wait for your fella not the one on the side . the one who you just broke up with.
now if this guy loves you he will wait for you, if he is a virgin like he says he will deff wait for you . don't change guys just let it be for the moment.
2006-06-13 05:42:15 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wanted to take his WHAT!? Oh wait, that's right, this is normal. Virgin women are getting younger these days.
2006-06-13 02:36:35 · answer #10 · answered by thebewast 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋