My friend is a foster child and she want's to go live with her sister in louisianna I only want what's bst for her. Her sister saw what conditions she was living in and did nothing about it, has 3 litle babies each from a different father, No collage education, and is very young and freewilled. what do you think the chances are she will be able to go live with her (the state has to approve her). They are only half sisters and she doesn't even see her much and she has been a foster child for a month now and her sister just called.
2006-06-13 02:33:09 · 2 answers · asked by Bre 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Her current living conditions are fine but she has not adjusted and they want to move her.
2006-06-13 02:50:13 · update #1
it's very difficult for her being a foster child. She will always crave for some family ties regardless of how bad her sister situation is. She needs to belong. As a friend you have to understand and support her reason. For her sake I hope the state does not approve for the obvious reasons you stated. Usually the state look for a relatively stable home for a foster kid. Her sister has to prove that she can provide that. Maybe you should talk with her and not let her expect too much out of it. Right now she's probably imagining all the positive things that will happen if she moves in with her sister. Unfortunately reality is another matter.
2006-06-13 02:41:33 · answer #1 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure about the conditions shez living in currently but my bf dad is a foster child and his life turned out fine.. his parents (foster parents) loved him jus as he was their own.. i think she should give the foster parents a chance since its only been a month and it takes a while to warm up to them especially im guessin that shes not a baby > lol.. but most likely if the parents are willing to adopt a child theyr most likely willing to love it and care for her as a real daughter.. all im saying is you should tell her to give them a chance and if all fails mayb she could explore moving out but she shud really do her research.. either way ur a great friend for worrying about her.. keep it up and remind her to give them a chance. good luck.
2006-06-13 02:40:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋