I still like a man who is cocky and aggressive. Nice men tend to be neither.
2006-06-13 02:14:23 · 23 answers · asked by TROYA C 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
bad boyz are better in the sack!! and im married to one..and hes damn good to me..no i wasnt abused as a child or have low self esteem!
2006-06-13 06:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by luvmadukes 5 · 16⤊ 12⤋
I don't. I think the only women who fall for bad boys are women with low self-esteem or women who were abused as children.
I like confidence, but ********* and arrogance are a turn-off. And while it's true that I don't like guys with no interests, no standards, and no ambitions who act overly polite and sycophantic in order to make up for their lack of personality, I also don't like guys who treat women like crap. I don't want a doormat, but I also don't want a player.
I'll take an intelligent, interesting, humorous guy who has his own life and doesn't need to be entertained constantly but who treats me well over a cocky moron or a doe-eyed dork any day.
2006-06-13 09:25:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women prefer cocky and aggressive man(Bad Boys) because they fill up the pleasure of a woman's personal secret desires.
2006-06-13 09:19:24 · answer #3 · answered by Bolan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do women prefer "Bad Boys" over nice guys? Hmm?
We all frequently need a glass of good plain water and sometimes a good glass of champagne (or what ever ones drink of choice happens to be). Perhaps for the same reason women sometimes prefer an exiting roller-coaster ride to a ride in a family car in their neighborhood. The “Bad Boys” can be so unpredictable and so exciting. Aren’t they? On the other hand do you know anybody who likes to live on the roller-coaster? I don’t
2006-06-13 09:41:43 · answer #4 · answered by Edward 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's based in women's innate need to have a man as a protector - whether we'd like to admit it or not. Keep in mind that not all women feel this way.
Women of today - in the western world - are cocky and aggressive in their own right and don't want a man who can't cut it with them, let alone protect them.
Just a theory.
2006-06-13 09:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by MillwoodsGal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its because we like excitement. i mean think about it... with a nice guy he'll buy u flowers, shower u with gifts, compliment u endlessly. He goes according to the guideline of " the perfect boyfriend". Sweet, but boring. now with a bad boy, you have the excitement, because he'll do unexpected things, he's cocky,defiant, agressive and interesting in the aspect that you don't know what he can and can't do(or be able to do). and that's just something we want to try and figure out. that's why women go for the bad boys.
2006-06-13 09:20:55 · answer #6 · answered by Isabel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like I saw on a nature program, -young African men fighting with sticks to see who was tougher. The fierce fighter got more dates. The fighter wins battles, -saves / protects the family.
In times of hunger, the fighter will raid the next village over and steal their food, and feed his own family. Thru minor evolution over the past 3,000 year, having 6 daughters rather than 2 daughters that have this "look for a bad guy" trait, has seemed to win out.
Typically men want to-go-along-to-get-along, but to get the girls, - he has to act tough, and he knows it. I'm sure alot of wars and death has been caused by women and their breeding habits.
2006-06-13 09:21:39 · answer #7 · answered by MK6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heres my theory: We all know most women love drama and more drama. Who is going to give them more drama than a bad boy? Alot of those same women have self esteem problems as well therefore, will put up with their crap. Everyone wants their lives to be exciting like on TV and movies. A nice guy may not make their lives exciting and crazy. And my last rant to my theory is: Most women are stupid and immature. Instead of holding onto a nice guy when they finally find one, they dump him for a jerk. Just pure immaturity.
2006-06-13 09:21:16 · answer #8 · answered by Fool in the Rain 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually if a woman has low self-esteem and gets involved with a 'bad boy' she will do whatever it takes to stay with him, to not upset him and to do what he wants. But nice guys do finish last. God Bless the Good Guys/NIce Guys
2006-06-13 15:05:18 · answer #9 · answered by whatyathinking 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are interesting, fun to be around, and a little mysterious. But this usually only happens once a month :) We actually prefer "nice guys" when we decide to have kids or build a solid relationship.
2006-06-13 12:08:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's reverse psychology. We want what we can't have. It goes back into childhood and the thrill of getting caught with your hand in the cookie jar.
In this case, the "bad boy" is the cookie we can't have. Sure, he's fun and exciting, but like cookies, he offers little if no substance.
2006-06-13 11:34:31 · answer #11 · answered by germaine_87313 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋