my mate sarah is saying to me and my other friend that she thinks she is pregnant but we dont know how to tell her that she isnt bcos we dont want to hurt her feelingsshe has put on abit of weight but we know she isnt HELP me i dont want to hurt her feelings.
2006-06-13 02:06:03 · 19 answers · asked by angipooh16 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
How do you know she isn't pregnant?
Get her a pregnancy test - if that comes back negative then no she isn't - you cannot fake a positive pregnancy test.
I hope to god your friend isn't saying she thinks she is pregnant because she thinks its "cool".
2006-06-14 10:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all there are tests at the pharmacy that she can get and it will tell her for sure if she is pregnant or not. Second of all you and your friend have no business trying to answer a question only a licenced doctor can answer. For all you know she may have gotton a pregnancy test and taken it and it showed positive. Just because she doesn't look pregnant doesn"t mean she isn't The young girls don't start showing until they are a good 6 months or more in most cases,my daughter-in-law was 7 and a half months before she started showing and she never got fat at all, just around the middle at about 7 months. Do not try to give advise to your friends about any medical question, you may prevent some one from getting treatment when they could have had the situation treated at an early stage if they had gotten checkedby a real doctor instead of listening to friends like you and your friend. I am not tryng to seem harsh with you but she needs prenatal care NOW, just in case it is an atopic pregnacy which if left untreated within 3 months, she could die if the baby gets to big and ruptures her filopian tube. Young women don]t need advise from friends, there are plenty of free clinics around that can advise her and teach her how NOT to get pregnant, if she isn't all ready. My advice to you since you asked for help is, shut up and try and get her to go to a doctor or take a E.P.T. test and make sure she sees a real doctor, not consult friends. Sincerely Dollyllama 2003
2006-06-13 02:31:54 · answer #2 · answered by dchilders_ministerofmusic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you say she isn't pregnant doesn't mean she isn't.
Its not like you get pregnant and instantly you have a big belly.
Of course maybe she isn't. The only way to know for sure is by her going to the doctor.
However until she is about four months pregnant she might not show on the outside at all. As far as the other signs with all of my children I had morning sickness but with one of them I did not get it until I was almost three months pregnant. Some people do not have it at all. With my first child I did not have any breast tenderness at all. With my first two children I did not have an increase in headaches. With most of my pregnancies I did not get any weird cravings.ETC ETC ETC.
Every pregnancy is different and unless she goes to a doctor you can not just tell her that she isn't pregnant. You do not know.
2006-06-13 02:14:44 · answer #3 · answered by foolnomore2games 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know she's not pregnant? She could be. She has trusted you with this and you don't believe her. Get her to take a test and show you to prove it. You don't get any outward symptoms of pregnancy until about 3 or 4 months, because the baby is inside the uterus down in the pelvis. It's only when it gets bigger and moves up into the stomach area that a bump starts to show.
2006-06-13 02:38:43 · answer #4 · answered by orione16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My cosine and his lovely woman had a child almost a year ago....she did not know she was pregnant until the night before she gave birth. There daughter was born with out compilations. The mother had regular menstruation, no craving and no morning sickness. she went to the er with what she thought was a back ache caused by constipation. And only a blood test from a Dr. can be a postive answer
2006-06-13 03:33:13 · answer #5 · answered by dragonflysbuzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could still be pregnant! The only way to know for sure is to have her take a test! Some women just know they are pregnant...I did both times! The doctors kept telling me I wasn't pregnant the second time but I knew I was!
2006-06-13 02:15:26 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Stranger In Maine™♥ (Thriller) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know she isnt? Has she done a test? You dont start showing til about 4 months, and some people have no other signs til then. I think you should get her to do a home test.
2006-06-13 02:10:24 · answer #7 · answered by lovethesun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'Just because she is not showing any signs, it doesn't meant she isn't pregnant. Exactly what signs are you looking for....morning sickness ? some woman never experience morning sickness, so don't use that as a gauge. Better that you both go to the doc for a pregnancy test.
2006-06-13 02:15:29 · answer #8 · answered by sarto1963 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend "thinks" she's pregnant? But you and your other mate "thinks" she's not.
Good god, you all sound too young to be having sex.... but have your friend take a pregnancy test to be sure and to start getting the care she needs if she is pregnant.
2006-06-13 04:48:49 · answer #9 · answered by Violent and bored 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply ask her to take an at home pregnancy test in front of you, if she loves you and is being honest, there shouldn't be any problem with her doing this. if she brings up trust issues, you may want to go to the doctor with her or she may be covering something up.
2006-06-13 02:15:48 · answer #10 · answered by Penny C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋