on the 30th june! weve got loads to sort out. do you think its natural to arguements?
2006-06-13 01:33:51 · 21 answers · asked by sweets 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
best of luck... hope you can work things out..
2006-06-13 01:36:16 · answer #1 · answered by babymikmik...... mwahhh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you could ask him(Jason) what was he doing in your room. And let him know under no certain terms did you like what you saw when you walked in on him. But you also have to understand at the age of 16 he is going to do things like that. Which it still gave him no right to do that in your room. If you are a open minded person, suggest to him that he needs to "take care of business" in the bathroom or not do it at all while it is his week to be there. It wont't fall off and he won't die refraining from that sort of thing while he is in your mom's home. If your boyfriend saw the same thing you saw then he knows it was just as much of a shock to you as it was to him. Unless he wants to talk about it then just it go. Things happen and if you love each other then you both know it was just a bad circumstance that you two happened to stumble upon.
2016-03-27 02:23:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the subjects of the arguments. Moving is a stressful activity and you're bound to have a lot of stupid little arguments. If you're arguing about what color to paint the walls, probably not a big deal. If you're arguing about how he goes out all night with his buddies and comes home drunk while you do all the packing... well, that's another story. Assess what your arguments are about and go from there.
2006-06-13 01:39:33 · answer #3 · answered by April M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, same here! We argued and fought and made up and argued again and again. It's naturally a start, you both are too tired, and your world becomes smaller. You can't decide on your own anymore. You can't just do this or that anymore. But it's it. Be constructive. Don't be hard-headed. Don't argue just because he(she) wins you before that.
2006-06-13 01:40:05 · answer #4 · answered by bla_bla_bla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CONGRATULATIONS!!!! That must be so exciting!! Yes, it is natural to argue round this time and its also natural to argue when a couple is engaged, married, sad, happy etc. Arguing is fine and what doesn't kill the relationship only makes it stronger! Best of luck, and have fun!!
2006-06-13 01:37:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it is natural to argue while you are moving. When the next fight breaks out, just turn around and say: i love you too! The best of luck to you and hope you enjoy your new home.
2006-06-13 01:38:33 · answer #6 · answered by Bergvlam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having disagreements during a very stressful time is quite normal and moving is a stressful time. Just watch what you say, be kind and understanding, just remember why you are upset (it's probally not what you are fighting about, but just about the stress of moving), and be loving.
2006-06-13 01:36:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
happens to all of us.
you know, i read somewhere that a couple moving is one of the most 3 stressful times a relationship will have.
that, and owning your own business were in the top.
know it will pass, and remind yourself that you both are under stress and that is why your both irritable. make time to be a couple, even for 30 minutes, during this time. It will help.
2006-06-13 01:39:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Just make sure the arguments are either resolved peacefully, or if dropped, that they are truly dropped because the same feelings will pop up again if not.
Good luck moving!
2006-06-13 01:36:10 · answer #9 · answered by sundrizzler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you of cause it natural to argument you'll probably find you will row over stupid thinks like the remote control or who does the washing up!! good luck
2006-06-13 01:37:36 · answer #10 · answered by happyslappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I are going threw the same thing and there is stuff of his that I want to get rid of but he wants to keep. Just remember to compromise! Best of luck with everything, Remember you love him!
2006-06-13 01:38:40 · answer #11 · answered by charliesangel_84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋