I mean when gay people like men, one of the partners has to look or act or speak like a woman... (vice versa as lesiban!) What's up with their twisted mind?
2006-06-13 01:27:16 · 12 answers · asked by LetMEtell&AskYOU 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I mean.. they won't want a real opposite sex, but a pretended one!
2006-06-13 01:27:54 · update #1
It looks like,to me, Both have female tendencies. They both prefer to have sex with men sothat would mean they are both women in mens bodies. Am I right. Sure.. They are Girly boys !
2006-06-13 01:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 7⤋
Um, if you would recognize either my partner or I as being gay at a single meeting, I would be amazed. No pretend women here.
On the other hand some bois are very effeminate, and I'm glad that there are people who love them -- because no one should be alone and afraid in life.
But, you miss the point, whether you have someone like Jonathan (my lover of nearly 15 years) or someone like our friend Damon (a sweet young boi with a lover of a couple of years - who one knows is gay when one sees him) or someone like another friend, who just told me after I've known him for 14 years that he's gay and I'm still wondering if he's pulling my leg - but presuming he isn't -- no matter which you have -- its all about *****. No matter how gentle and effeminate a guy is, he has a dick -- "real" women don't. I happen to have a lover that you could never tell, but an effeminate boy would not have been turned away if I loved him and he loved me all those years ago -- it doesn't matter to me. Him having a dick -- that matters. Vaginas just don't do anything but make me want to barf (no offense to the ladies).
I hope that helps you understand.
Regards,
Reyn
http://www.rebuff.org
2006-06-13 10:25:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah behold the patriarchal assumptions that men shouldn't display female qualities. Gotta love the cycle of oppression, even if the man in question is truly straight.
And I do not look or act or speak like a woman. I may not do all of those identically to a straight male either. I am a unique individual. If anything, I'm between the two. My boyfriend is far from looking, acting, or speaking like a woman. The fundamentaly assumption of binaries in our society is a great fallacy. In a relationship there doesn't have to be a male figure or a female figure. There can just as easily be to "males" two "females" or a male woman and female man. It's also quite possible to not even fit into those sets because they only account for the binaries: male and female. There's a range in between along the gender continuum.
2006-06-13 10:58:10 · answer #3 · answered by sailordelta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are stereotyping gays here. A real gay person, a man or a woman, is a person who accepts his or her homosexual orientation as a normal sexual orientation. One does not have to act like a member of the opposite sex to be gay. One just has to be happy about being a homosexual to me gay. If one feels one has to act a certain way to be gay, then one's logic is twisted!
2006-06-13 09:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by mrjoeallendoty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, thats not right. Just because you're gay doesn't mean you suddenly take on characteristics of the opposite sex. Sort of ironic if that happened....
2006-06-13 09:00:36 · answer #5 · answered by quinn_hamblin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you were to ever see my partner and myself you would never know we were gay, so stop it with the stereotyping. You don't have to look or act gay if you are gay. Straight people just asume that, and you know what happens if you asume-- ( you make an *** out of you and me)
2006-06-13 08:50:15 · answer #6 · answered by Lorenzo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only the ACT of physical homosexuality makes you Gay, but on the other hand you could have homosexual tendencies
2006-06-13 11:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by Darthritus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
straight guys and lesbians brains respond to female phermones. Gay men and straight women's brains respond to male phermones.
I do not know if anyone has tested this with bisexuals.
2006-06-13 09:59:13 · answer #8 · answered by tkdeity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any dude that likes to ride the bologna pony - or any dyke that like to munch on carpet. Thank you and have an intoxicated day.
2006-06-13 08:33:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not true...im a butch and i like butch.....get your facts straight buddy...well maybe not straight....
2006-06-13 08:29:25 · answer #10 · answered by Chef Shortie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋