Why do yall get so mad and hurt when you find out your man slept with someone else?
There's a difference between the one you love and build with, and the one you lay pipe to...real talk.
Like this:
If I got you the nice big house, the diamonds, the cars, the family, and I'm there physically and emotionally for you and the kids, and everything else to make you the happiest, why would you throw all that away because I met a skeet at the club and we slapped our goods? I dont love her, I love you and come home to you, and provide for you and our family, understand?
I never understood womens theory on that.
You cant seriously say that a man who cheats on you doesnt love you if he gives you everything and plus himself. Serious tho Ladies holla at me on this issue...help me understand.
2006-06-13 01:26:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, if you put it that way. Yeah, I might overlook a slip-up or two if I was provided for in every other way. Otherwise, heck no. But if the guy made a habit of infidelity, what would be the point of being married? Plus, if my husband were to cheat on me, I would never get over the questions .. was she better than me, more good-looking, what did she do that I don't, etc. etc.
2006-06-13 01:39:34 · answer #1 · answered by xtragicallyxbeautifulx 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you don't understand the meaning of love and the commitment you are making when you get married to someone.love is not about giving her the perfect home, being there when you fell like it etc. Its about giving you heart and your soul to that special someone.
One question.....do you think that just becasue you provide for her you can do whatever you wnat to do whenever you feel like it? I don't think that's very wise. If you are still into going to the club and laying with other chicks then you should not have married in the first place.
So you're saying that its okay if your woman slaps her good with another guy and comes home and tells you she loves you?
Wake up, cause lifes too short.
2006-06-13 01:50:16 · answer #2 · answered by Hope2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to answer a question with a question but can you tell me hoe "he gives you everything and plus himself" if he is giving the "slapping of the goods" to skeet from the club?
Just a thought!
2006-06-13 01:49:15 · answer #3 · answered by OklahomaSweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be very hurt by this if my husband ever did this to me and my marriage as i love him so much but at the same time if he was sorry and asked for forgiveness and wanted to work on and try to save the marriage with me i would try to help him and seek help from a marriage counselor with him to try and save our marriage and i would want to forgive him over time as i would want him to do the same for me if it were me that had slipped up and had done this. However if he was not sorry and did not want the marriage to work and continued to do this i would separate and get out of the marriage and try to move on with my life. I would definitley not throw my marriage away for money or anything like that. I dont see why you would ever cheat anyway and hurt your wife. All the money and things in the world does not make someone happy. Love and commitment does! How can you say you truley love someone if you continue to cheat and be unfaithful and hurt them and break their heart like that. THINGS, MONEY and STUFF does not by love and trust and commitment. You can have stuff and money and things and be the loneliest person and wife in the world and be truley unhappy if you do not feel loved and cherished by your spouse. Are you truley giving yourself and your life to your wife by cheating on her and continuing to hurt her like this?
2006-06-13 01:53:14 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are not ready for a one person relationship. I hope she did not marry you because when you get married you promise to be loyal to only one person. there are alot of diseases out there and it is not safe to cheat on someone. I think you should just be a player because it sounds like you are not ready for real committed love. love with one person that is real is truly beautiful. i hope you find it some day. good luck.
2006-06-13 01:37:49 · answer #5 · answered by Ginnykitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because when you are with someone you make a committment you will be with that one person, not that person and someone else, you are taking something that is sacred in a realtionship and sharing it with someone else, sex is something you do with just your one partner, besides all of that have you ever heard of std's if you love your woman why put her at risk of infecting her with something she had nothing to do with?
2006-06-13 01:31:15 · answer #6 · answered by mimismom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if someone cheats whether it's the man or the woman, THEY DON'T LOVE THEIR PARTNER...it's that simple...that is the worst possible betrayal that one person can do to another...it breaks trust...it breaks hearts....the person who is cheating is a JERK..and deserves to be alone.
2006-06-13 01:40:54 · answer #7 · answered by Syeira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if your Wife met "pants" at the "club" and "slapped goods" with him ???? Hows that make ya feel? Nice loved and secure? Oh and what about DISEASE!!!!??????? OMG! DID she used a condom? Oh and what about pregnancy? IS that baby mine? Oh and what about............................... Oh sorry I was just putting myself in those shoes for a minute............. whew!
2006-06-13 02:26:38 · answer #8 · answered by Grace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋