2006-06-13 01:10:35 · 12 answers · asked by Minnie_2006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When two people are of legal age and mentally mature then age shouldn't always be a deciding factor in marriage. There's so much emphasis it seems on age differences due to media's influence on social acceptance. In my opinion the only time age may be a problem is when a woman is considerably younger and desires to have children then possibly this is something to consider with respect to the man's age. If you're in love together and this isn't a foreseeable problem then I see no reason why you shouldn't hav a life together.
2006-06-13 01:20:05 · answer #1 · answered by fun_guy_otown 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only you can decide but, I guarantee you that age is not the only mismatch. In every relationship there are different views, opinion. attitudes. You are fooling yourself if you think that is the only thing.
I think that age difference relationships can work out well but they have to put more work iinto it and really know each other well before entering into a commitment.
2006-06-13 01:15:33 · answer #2 · answered by heartwhisperer2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age difference is a generation, if you will. Do you get along easily? Do you bicker about small things. Does he expect you to know what he knows about the basics in life he already experienced? There can be a lot of stress and tension, but if you love each other and can overlook the small things, try living together first - if you already are - then you know the answer to marriage.
2006-06-13 01:50:55 · answer #3 · answered by G.. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife took a chance with me 11 years ago and I am 15 years older than she is. Today we are happier together than we were on the day we married! She keeps me young and active.
If you love this man and he loves you the same way, marry him and may the rest of your life be as happy and fulfilling as you wish!
2006-06-13 04:24:38 · answer #4 · answered by Ekimo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is not necessarily a disqualifier, but how old are you? Are you ready to be married? Does he have kids, and how old are they? Is that going to be a problem? Lots of things to consider besides age, but if everything else seems to be okay, don't let age keep you from being happy.
2006-06-13 01:16:20 · answer #5 · answered by wild1handy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well are you happy ? if so then dont worry about the age thing. And hopefully ur legal to marry. But age should only be and issue if it's made one. If you 2 don't care well then it doesnt matter. Just be happy and enjoy life.
2006-06-13 01:13:39 · answer #6 · answered by one with no name 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age should not be the deciding factor. Are you compatible in other areas of your lives? Religion, child-rearing, do enjoy the same social outings, do you have the same types of friends, etc?
The love you have for each other should be the driving force.
2006-06-13 01:22:55 · answer #7 · answered by adviceone2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You NEVER really know someone until you live with them. This should be the ultimate test. Live together first and then decide.
2006-06-13 02:02:22 · answer #8 · answered by Kit Kat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEAH ,,,go ahead marry him..Just make sure you he's got life insurance.
2006-06-13 01:20:59 · answer #9 · answered by CuteGirl_36_24_36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age should not matter as long as you are happy
2006-06-13 01:15:05 · answer #10 · answered by mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋