I have been married for a little over 1 month. My wife and I are already having problems. (I have posted a couple of problems for answers). I am a school teacher, so I am on summer vacation. I try to help out arond the house so she doesn't have to so much when she comes home from work. I try to at least have dinner started, do up some laundry and straighten up around the house. (make the bed etc.) I get up in the morning when she does (6:00) to see her off to work. She came home last night ticked off b/c I had dinner cooking and was doing the dishes. She seems to not be appreciative. We had a huge fight about it. What do I do???? Please help!
2006-06-13 01:08:41 · 5 answers · asked by Ben S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should talk to her about it you are trying to work as team with her but she doesn't appreciate you that is not good just sit back and enjoy your holiday let her do everything and then she will appreciate you more teach her a lesson good luck and look after yourself.
2006-06-13 01:14:29 · answer #1 · answered by sasa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a summer job as a soccer coach or something...doing dinner and dishes isn't something I can see a woman getting mad at but you should talk to her, ask her what it is that's bothering her...I would be a little jealous if every morning I had to get up and go while my husband stood home, but when you got married you took vows that promised infinite understanding and compromise, so do just that...
2006-06-13 08:14:07 · answer #2 · answered by Luna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is feeling that you are infringing on her territory. She feels like less of a woman because you are doing what she feels is her job. I have been married for 16 years and my wife is now fighting cancer....I took over these things as well and cause a big mess...when I finally figured this out....we taled about it and I told her I was just trying to help...realize nice guys do finish last and try to talk it out
2006-06-13 08:15:19 · answer #3 · answered by drex5ge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she feels like it her job to so the work around the house. she may like to do things her way and she may not like them done yours?? i dont know but you need to sit and talk with her to find out the problem. you guys are starting out as a married couple dont let anything ruin that.
2006-06-13 08:23:40 · answer #4 · answered by mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she's pregnant.
2006-06-13 08:15:47 · answer #5 · answered by ice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋