2006-06-13 01:07:31 · 6 answers · asked by moved 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First thing is you sit down and talk to him about what you think marriage is and ask him what he thinks it means to him. Then you ask him if he want to still be married and if he says yes insist on going for counseling. If he says he doesn't want to be married then you have your answer.....you leave.
2006-06-13 01:32:55 · answer #1 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide to accept him for the way that he is and figure out how u can live that way or ask him to change. It all comes down to compromise, so he has to be willing as do you. IF you cant do that, which is possible, then I dont think that you can stay married to him.
2006-06-13 09:42:03 · answer #2 · answered by boomerang3que 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't He a) spend his time with you as a married couple b) go's off never to return and lets you find a man who wants to spend the rest of his life with YOU
2006-06-13 08:11:50 · answer #3 · answered by littlebrother1961 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as married and single. You are one or the other, not both. If he can not commit to marriage, you need to go your own ways, divorce, whatever.
2006-06-13 08:10:35 · answer #4 · answered by wild1handy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First,you tell him,he CAN'T have it both ways!
Either he loves you enough to be MARRIED OR....
if he wants to be Single and doesn't love you anymore..
Let him go! No straddling the fence!!
2006-06-13 08:14:02 · answer #5 · answered by loves watching deer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SIMPLY DESERVE MORE.Your time,effort and love are just not being respected by this man.Let him go,and he can second guess his loss while you can start over with a health outlook.
2006-06-13 08:56:16 · answer #6 · answered by lotsalovetanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋