is it normal, boys having a gf, do not seek for sex, but masturbate twice a week?
2006-06-13 01:05:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
i am a female my bf is a male, and he is worrying me
2006-06-13 04:40:26 · update #1
Masturbation is a perfectly normal and healthy pastime, but if it is becoming detrimental to your relationship because you PREFER to masturbate then have sex with your partner, then there could be an issue.
What is the reason you and your partner are not having sex? If your partner is 'off' sex at the moment, you should be takling and finding out why- she could be stressed, having health problems or going through some emotional difficulties. As her partner, you should be helping her get to the root of any problems she may be having, and helping her solve them.
If you yourself are PREFERRING to masturbate rather than have sex, then you have some issues of your own which need confronting. Are you tired from work? Worried about something? Anxious about sexual performance? Perhaps you no longer find her attractive- again, this is normal but can be detrimental to a healthy sexual relationship. Perhaps if you address the deeper issues, everything else will work itself out. I wish you and your partner luck and success, because there is nothing more fulfilling than a healthy sexual relationship. All the best for the future.
2006-06-13 01:10:41 · answer #1 · answered by Sitting Still 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men masturbate all the time - whether they have a gf, wife, or what ever. if you don't want sex though, there are possibly some underlying issues. Are you still a virgin? Performance anxiety could be a cause.
2006-06-13 08:09:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is certainly not the norm. How old is this guy? I would guess this may be more normal for a younger man. It would make me wonder if this person doesn't find me that desirable. Maybe you should move on and find someone who wants sex with you.
2006-06-13 08:12:17 · answer #3 · answered by Buff Is Gone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal for married men to masturbate as well, it doesn't mean he doesnt' want her it's just something ALL men do....I think it's that thought of recapturing the feeling the very first time you masturbated.
2006-06-13 09:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by mason_43269 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is normal for guy to masturbate even if he have a galfriend. But, normally guy will like to have sex with his galfriend rather then masturbating. While you are masturbating, who do you actually think of? If it is your galfriend, then you are normal. If not, something must be wrong.
2006-06-13 10:04:20 · answer #5 · answered by JonathanT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy rules. Don't ask, its a secret society and you'll never get the real answer.
2006-06-13 08:08:32 · answer #6 · answered by ndvsne1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, oops im not a man, but i think it is totally normal. that is what you call a faithfull man, if he can not get it from his girl, he will get it from himself!!maybe he is waiting for the right time.
2006-06-13 08:09:38 · answer #7 · answered by sweetpea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...
But... if he could GET sex... he'd take it.
This indicates that the COST isn't worth the experience.
2006-06-13 08:07:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit asking all these sex questions!
2006-06-13 08:07:46 · answer #9 · answered by smoochy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not normal
2006-06-13 08:53:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋