Do you ever find it hard to say NO ? when you start to make out with some1 and start touching them and they wanna go further ...they wanna have sex, and you dont really want a one night stand but you cant say NO either....basically i have a problem saying NO to cute guys
2006-06-13 00:25:47 · 19 answers · asked by sexyashell 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
yea i'm a guy.....is that a problem???
2006-06-15 17:33:17 · update #1
aren't you a guy???
2006-06-13 21:43:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can be hard to say no. But, as others have said, if you are mature enough to get yourself into said situation, you should be mature enough to be able to control yourself and establish what is and is not acceptable for yourself. For me, sex does not happen unless I've been with the person for a while and it has the potential of being a long lasting relationship. I have no problem saying no. And if this is your feelings on saying no now, I'd hate to see you in a relationship when you'd feel obligated to always say yes. It's your body. You decide what to do with it, and it is your responsibility to take control.
2006-06-13 04:02:33 · answer #2 · answered by sailordelta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is probably not a good situation all around. Saying "no" is difficult but if you're old enough and mature enough to be in an intimate situation, then I think you should have the personal strength to refuse a man and stop the act. And natasha when you said "no in my language means yes" I think the girl above you mean a rhetorical "no" not the literal word.
2006-06-13 01:27:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st off...you shouldnt let yourself get into the position you are in. If you are not mature enough to say the WORD NO....then you are not mature enough to be having sex. From your writing you sound very young and immature.
NO means NO in any language. Maybe you should be group dating in public places and never catch yourself alone with a guy. Learn some self control girl!!
2006-06-13 00:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes!!! i'm the same way. i have a really hard time saying no once it gets to the "petting" stage.
and those who say you shouldn't allow it to get that far if you're not willing to go all the way are just dumb. are they trying to say you should jump from just kissing on one date straight to jumping in the sac with them on the next? hell naw! you gotta progress a li'l each time - that's the fun part.
anyway - hope you find the answer you're looking for. just know you're not alone in feeling this way, but you do need to learn how to say no or you'll find yourself in a situation you may not be able to get out of and/or you'll feel really bad the next morning.
good luck, sweetie! mmmmmmmmuah!
2006-06-13 02:02:41 · answer #5 · answered by water_loves_fire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should make it clear that you want a relationship and your not interested in one night stands.
2006-06-13 12:57:58 · answer #6 · answered by Cymalon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying No will gain you more respect. And you will like yourself better in the morning. Wait for the one that will love you forever!!!!
2006-06-13 05:06:42 · answer #7 · answered by azgraywolf143 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont have that problem no comes easily for me no I dont want you to stop. no I dont care what I said about one night stands. no it is not uncomfortable to do it here in the car. no .......
2006-06-18 15:18:06 · answer #8 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as hard as it seems try to say no if you don't really want to have a one night stand...
2006-06-13 01:32:24 · answer #9 · answered by anna 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay off the bologna pony
2006-06-13 00:28:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG yes i know what you mean!
yeah i will give just a little kiss goodbye and WHAM its morning and you are in his bed!
2006-06-13 07:08:38 · answer #11 · answered by everybody loves chris! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋