my huby is overprotective with me sometimes i cant breath. I like to be as a wrking wife but he likes me to be a plain house wife... wat should i do to gain his trust
2006-06-13 00:01:28 · 9 answers · asked by kris 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Girl, just show him u love him all ur heart, cook for a romantic dinner for him surprise him in a really sexy dress sat down and talk to him about it softly saying u really love him and u wouldnt do anything that comes close to ruining u guys' relationship. And give him time.
2006-06-13 00:06:08 · answer #1 · answered by AppleSoda 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunetly you can't do much. It is his choice to be overprotective and jealous. The only thing that I could tell you to about a person like that is talk to him about it. Tell him what you feel and make sure that he knows that there is nothing to worry about. One of the reasons men get jealous is because, believe it or not, we always crave attention. When you are walking with him, hold his hand or put your arm through his and grab a hold of it. There are a few things that you can try. Only you can know what might work as you will know him better than most.
2006-06-13 07:13:51 · answer #2 · answered by hansonm24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but Treatau has nothing better to say. Seems like that person is deciding when to commit suicide. Anyhow, have you talked to you husband about your feelings? Maybe he can share his feelings that way you two can compromise on what to do and not to do to make one jealous. If he loves you he would trust you. Sometimes, men just are crazy in love they think other guys are out to get a sexy fox like you. Honestly I think a quite candle light dinner and a relaxing environment should help him relax and then you could ask him why he acts the way he does. Good luck.
2006-06-13 07:09:23 · answer #3 · answered by missdontgivafukusa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever done anything to cause him to mistrust you? If you haven't, then he will never get over it, until he himself goes for help on his self esteem, that is what it is really about, he thinks and feels that you would leave him for someone else, because he isn't good enough for you.
IF you did something to lose his trust, that is a whole different issue.
2006-06-13 07:08:31 · answer #4 · answered by babydoll121070 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your hubby seems to be very possessive bout you and must also be madly in love with you..May be he feels insecured when it comes to you as well... You need to first find out what makes him feel so. Need to be patient to learn his view points.
suggest you shud try talking to him quite often on your affection for him and make him feel that you have been balancing between professional and family life. Your approach is very sensitive and important in this case.. Take care...
2006-06-13 07:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by mltr a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a problem of his not yours. There is nothing you can do to gain his trust. Even if you stayed home, he would find something to be insecure about. Try to get him in counseling. Good luck!
2006-06-13 07:07:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to give him as much time as possible and talk to him about your wishes and what you actually want to do. Since we r wives we dion't have much space, we have to do what they like and that is what truth is. How did you lost his trust? do the opposite of the same thing to gain his trust back.
2006-06-13 07:31:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to answer your question you can be honest and open about everything in your relationship...no hiding anything or lying or giving him reason not to trust you...
personally, i dont think its you with the issue...unless you are doing something to give him reason to be jealous or not trust you..
from experience, i used to be that way in past relationships... i was that way because i was cheating on them, being insecure about myself and had low self esteem... just some food for thought
2006-06-13 07:30:45 · answer #8 · answered by heresthedeal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheat on him or leave on him
2006-06-13 07:05:33 · answer #9 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋