2006-06-12 23:58:16 · 26 answers · asked by honey10 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, Keep out of that field.
I once thought like your husband, but where does it stop? When my wife said no, I never tried anybody else but I did try to twist my wife in other ways to conform to my desires. You pledged exclusivity, only recently as well, and that should be a security to both of you. When I married I said For better or for worse. That means if my wife is a dream or if she is anything else I will be by her side. I might think that I can toss that aside and pick it up later but what would we have then?
You got the gift, each other, and nobody else should have that, treasure it. Where would you stand if that did not? Ta!
2006-06-13 00:18:13 · answer #1 · answered by Elisha 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That can be interesting, but it can also build a brick wall in between you so high, there will never be any getting around it. My husband wanted that too, and now he is my ex husband after leaving me 5 times for another woman, after he came back the 5th time, I had enough and am married to someone else who wants me and ONLY me!
2006-06-13 07:05:52 · answer #2 · answered by babydoll121070 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you everr asked yourself why? and is your hubby open in taht idea or you imagine!! this quiz needs a sober answere and it all depends on you....it is very fatal in the first place to have multiple partners,..regardless of the assumptions of safe sex. Just ttry and re evaluate your self may be you are not performingg in a way or the other, so he seeks fulfilment s'where else!!
2006-06-13 07:09:25 · answer #3 · answered by Topaz07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you thought of it first... ie you want to try it as well...
It only suits certain couples and then often not all their lives but certain times... Ie may like it at first then not like it...
Also you need a very strong realtionship so the swapping is fun not emotional and don't get jealous or fancy others...
May work, may not. May help keep you togehter may split you apart...
Follow your heart
2006-06-13 07:28:22 · answer #4 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! But only if you find at least one member of that other couple attractive. Swing together and Stay together. You'll probably totally enjoy it. If you refuse maybe he'll just sneak off on his own.
2006-06-13 07:18:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just wants to have another women, but wants to keep u informed. he doesnt care who will have sex with u but he will keep relation going on in future & u cannot object it coz u were involved in the first time coupleS sex. so NO NO & No
2006-06-13 07:15:03 · answer #6 · answered by PrinceCharming 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO! it is definately not a good idea.why should your husband want to have sex with other coupes when he has you.And i think you should serious get offended and talk to him about he even proposing such a insane thing,you could actually get to know another side of him( BAD SIDE)
2006-06-13 07:14:17 · answer #7 · answered by maluz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats' the most fcked up thing i've ever heard lol.. HELL NO! its sooooo wrong, guys might like it but not unless u're a really freaky chick, i dont think u'd like ur husband making "Love" with another chick.
2006-06-13 07:02:07 · answer #8 · answered by AppleSoda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! Because you will feel depressed after, because there is a great chance that he will call you a whore, because you can finally discover that he is not the right man for you since he is craving for other women and don't give a $hit about you....
2006-06-13 07:03:03 · answer #9 · answered by rakovica.blinks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you feel about that?
If you are merely "going along with it",
I think your feelings are going to get hurt.
You'll be waiting on him to finish sowing whatever wild oats he has...
then you get to drive home with him while he wears that big stupid grin...
then you go to bed...you kiss him goodnight and he still smells like her...
ick...doesn't sound like fun.
But if you're up for the newness of the adventure...go for it.
2006-06-13 07:11:21 · answer #10 · answered by Warrior 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋