Any suggections???
2006-06-12 23:43:19 · 5 answers · asked by dmoney220 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
BEING a good man is the best way to find a good woman. ;-)
Also, patience is a virtue. After my last relationship, I felt I'd never find true love, it just seemed hopeless. When I was finally over him, I realized he was in my life to prepare me to recognize, respect and cherish Mr. Right when he finally comes along. Now, I'm just patiently waiting on Mr. Right.
I think of it this way, all the other stuff was the appetizer, now I'm ready for the main coarse!!
2006-06-12 23:52:03 · answer #1 · answered by Mel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is in your own perception. Before you read on stop. feel your reactions and let yourself calm down, if you felt attacked. Let me explain a bit. As a child when you knew little you were open taking in without judgement everything and anything. Over time parents and significant others like teachers and coaches in attempts to guide and protect as well as your own reaction to negative stimulus started to make judgements. Those judgements often are subliminal but they prevent noticing all one is capable of. For instance your questions states the word good to describe the woman your looking for. That word good can have many meanings. You specifically have narrowed and limited the meaning to certain things your looking for. Some of that description of good I would suggests that a good woman is someone who won't hurt you. It is at this point that fear gets in and it is easy to see fault in everyone that comes along as every woman is human and capable of making mistakes. As another human it is most likely that the way you see the woman's potential for hurting is a reflection of your own self doubt that your not good enough to attract a good relationship. These are all ego games we play with ourselves. Good women and good men are everywhere. When we can let go of all the conditions we make and experience one another more like we did when we were babies, the better chance we have of seeing others for their goodness and not their looks, their ability to please or do things for our selfish side.
2006-06-13 07:11:43 · answer #2 · answered by Reflective Frank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) to be more careful (2) some relaxation with chatting (3) can have some special moment if possible.
2006-06-13 06:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by mark la 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where r you? I am a good woman and can't find a good man--keep looking
2006-06-13 06:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by Julie P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just send a mail at rajendramungali@yahoo.co.in u might find one u r looking for have a nice day
2006-06-13 06:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋