if wife wants divorce n husband wants his wife back,then what to be done?

Question

My name is nafees ansari & my wifes name is anjum ansari.we were having 6 yrs affair n after that we married on 9th dec 2005.that was nikah n court marriage.after few days,she told her parents about our marriage,they demanded money from me,n later on they used ILAM and made my wife against me.now she is asking divorce from me,which is not possible.i told to everybody that i will die but wont give divorce.now this is been 5 months.i dont understand what to do.i want my love back,but dont know how.plz help me.

Answer 1

get over it and leave her

Answer 2

Seek counseling and help here. Try to find every way possible to save this marriage and work together on it with your wife. Obviously you still love her very much. What is ILAM if i may ask? How could they demand money from you they have no right to do that it is your only job to love and support your wife. This is a very confusing situation to me but i wish you the best and hope this marriage can be saved and restored!

Answer 3

c first step
ask ur wife wat exactly she wants divorce or she wants u
if she wants divorce tahn give her dont force her to live with u
and if she really needs divorce s\taht means she dont love u
and if she wants u then acording to law the money is given to the lady not her parents
and even if she ask for 10 bucks the regulation is done
she should understand wat mariage is if she loves u she should be withu and support u not ehr parents
ask her to run again

Answer 4

i believe you should let her walk away. give her divorce. you will find a better one, there is always some one for every one.
Good Luck

Answer 5

give them the money,and in return they will give you happiness,good luck

Answer 6

talk to your wife lonely....and make her understanding of your situations.......if possible talk to her parents too.....and tell them your position.......