Why do women feel like they need to have sex with ever guy they date?

Question

Why do women feel like they need to have sex with ever guy they date? Why do they feel the need to walk around in barely there clothing? Why do they have no sense if pride in them selfs? I think that any women who has had sex with more then 3 people is a S*UT! People see sex as a fun thing and they just do it with anyone. Then they get knocked up and get married only to have it end. Marriage means nothing to people either. I just don't understand, what happened to values? Why do we have 15 year old girls getting pregnant and the new age to get married is 16. I just wish the world would go back to how it use to be. I think TV is really what is wrong, EVERYTHING has to do with sex. They make it seem like its nothing. Even cartoons seem to promote it. I just don't understand anymore. What can I do to prevent this? There has to be something I can do. Does anyone else feel this way?

Don't get me wrong, MEN ARE JUST AS SLUTY! But they don't make me (a women) look bad...know what I mean?

I've been married for almost 2 years, I've only had sex with my Husband. So no, I'm not a slu*!

HAHAHA You think I don't have a fulfilling life? I have a better life them most of you 21 year olds out there. First off, I'm 21 and I have a GREAT marriage. My Husband is great (you can tell me all you want that he will cheat on me, but you don't know him and I know he would never cheat on me.) I also live in Okinawa Japan...not many 21 year olds can say they have lived overseas. Also I have my own Daycare. I think that is pretty good. I get to be my own boss I make good money, my husband and I are not in debt like most of the people in the world and I'm getting ready to start Collage. I would say I have a really good life. My Husband loves the fact that I have not had sex with other men. That is the biggest reason he married me. When he is having sex with me he loves knowing that no other man has been there. Most men do feel this way I think. I love my life and I love the fact that I can say I'm not a slutty person. I'm so happy I was able to say no to past b/f's

Answer 1

The world is full of lonely and sad people. because the word committment and caring are dissappearing from our vocabularies. Our media offers happiness in material posessions and physical pleasure and denounces anything else as a lie. Our sad and lonely people cannot see the truth because of the secular world and its whiz bang communication gizzmo's.

Answer 2

I don't think that u can do much. It is the way society is and yes they promote sex in everything these days it seems. I think u just got to be the way u want to be and try to be the best u feel you should be. Some woman have low self-esteems and they have sex with everyone because they do not think highly of themselves. I know it is a shame that a 15 or 16 yr old is having kids because as an adult i know that they can not handle having kids at that age. They are just making it hard on themselves to grow up and not be burdened with children before they are ready. The sad thin is the children they have they do not at that age feel responsible for those kids they have and they are mistreated because they want to do the thinks kids their age does and they find out that they have to be responsible for another life and it is not fun it is hard work and they will not put the energy in to bringing those kids up to be healthy and happy adults.

Answer 3

Because there is a stereotype that girls feel as though they should have to conform to. Its a shame, it really is but I think girls feel like this cos lust is sometimes more powerful than love. It irritates me that a guy can sleep with 10 girls in a night and be a legend, and a girl can sleep with 3 and considered a s!ut. The essence of sex has gone, and it is no longer a big deal, rather just a activity that 2 ppl do, and it no longer has the significance of love as it used to, which is up to the individual to decide

Answer 4

Cultural differences do make a difference here, but in my opinion, I would say that it is because she has been abused in some way and has come to believe that the only way she will be liked or loved is if she gives sex to everybody she meets.

There may be many answers to this question; mine is just one.

Also, you're way over generalizing...not EVERY woman is like this. I would suggest expanding your circle of friends. As far as what you can do to prevent this...why not become a Big Sister or another type of mentor for a young girl in your area?

Answer 5

I also find it very strange that these things happen.firstly you need to fimiliarise yourself with these words and what they mean out there.The word 'sex' is a Pun (double meaning). sex means that you can sleep with anyone you desire to sleep with at anytime.sex also means making love- meanig that you wait for the right person to sleep with because it is sacred.It is supposed to be a special thing betwen two people.To us teenagers we think that time is running so we need to experience everything so that if we lucky enough to grow old we do'nt regret it but we don't realise that we are running away from time.Is n't the government promoting teens to fall pregnant when he is giving out grants for people who don't work but have children.Isn't that a pair of Levi's jeans.Girls nowadays don't value their bodies anymore they think their bodies are something you can make money out of.If you've noticed by the time a girl reaches the age of 21 she has already had up to five children who are chioce assorted (different fathers).Tv has nothing to do with girls sleeping around its all in their mindset.

Answer 6

why do u think u have right to generalize and judge other people? u re just 21 years old, no education i presume, so u obviously feel jealous towards other people who have more fulfilling life than u. no all women feel like they need to have sex with every guy they date. and not all women date garbage or losers. u got married too early and missed all life. poor u. feel sorry for u. u will have kids soon, then gain lots of wait and become dull and fat. and hubby will cheat on u cos he will be attracted to someone more beautiful and smart. poor u

Answer 7

Those are very good points, but you must first consider the culture into which you ask. American culture is made up as it goes, but other cultures might think of this as acceptible. One persons 'right' answer is another persons 'wrong' answer. In a way, i think america has gotten more away from raising kids, and more toward letting the kids raise themselves. Sexuality is a natural thing, but what may be socially acceptable in one country doesn't mean that it is socially acceptable in another.

Answer 8

You have to considered the enviroment in which a person is raised. Young girls now unfortunately dont have fathers in there lifes and a lot of single mothers are doing there "BEST" so they think but they dont considered that there daughters want to be like them. So if mom is doing this and that then they follow. Everthing has to do with how you are raised.

Answer 9

Don't generalise not all women feel like they have to have sex with every guy they meet as for being a slut if you sleep with more than three people, get a grip of reality. i'm 25 and have slept with 5 people and I'm certainly not a slut

Answer 10

in 'the canterbury tales' by geoffrey chaucer he writes about one of the women he meets (the wife of bath) who seems to have been 'married' about five times (she is deliberately vague about what exactly she means by 'married') and to have 'been around the block' ('withouten other companye in youthe') a good few times before her fourteenth birthday.

chaucer wrote 'the canterbury tales' more than six hundred years ago (about 1380).

juliet (in romeo and juliet) is just thirteen years old.

and if you want to know how folk lived and loved in early renaissance italy you could read bocaccio's 'decameron'.

different people in different times and different cultures have always felt differntly about all sorts of things.

you have attitudes which are typical of your culture (and which you probably learned from your parents).

different people have attitudes which are typical of their culture (which they too probably learned at home).