The girl is superb to my specifications but i have never introduced her to my people as a prospectitive spouse. Currently they showing sign of rejecticting her so i fear identifying her to my parents. I now want a technical way to handle this before Dec. 2006 when i intent to bring her to my house forever.
2006-06-12 22:36:02 · 11 answers · asked by Jacob N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you are going to have to be straightforward and direct with them. You tell them point blank, this is the woman I have chosen, if you love me then you will have to accept her. Tell them she will be your wife, and you are expecting to see enough respect out of them not to ruin your joy. When they see you will stand beside your wife-to-be at all cost, they will submit. Be sure to guard your lady against their rejection, it will break her heart. Be firm, but gentle, and stand your ground. You obviously are not a child anymore, and should not act/be treated like one. Good luck!
2006-06-12 22:45:03 · answer #1 · answered by Cyndaly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She would be living in the same house with you and your parents??
The best way of getting acceptance is to speak positively of her, communicate that you are doing many things together - so by your action you can create a more positive feeling, I believe.
Explaining in two months that you intend more, should be OK.
2006-06-12 22:49:35 · answer #2 · answered by swissnick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introduce her to them. Before you do, tell them you are engaged and love her, that they can accept or reject her, but you are marrying her. Then just take her side over your parents and live your life. It took years for my Mom to like my husband, but she does now.
2006-06-12 22:43:17 · answer #3 · answered by Velken 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
[ Dude ]
Is there a rush in your schedule, deadlines or always messed up that's life.
They never meant her, they may like her you got.
"""A Long Row To Hole"""
Introduced her you may be surprised.
Your parents have got to have time to accept her.
2006-06-20 23:20:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its classic for them. and so a techniques as indian females pass,the appropriate present they are able to grant their husbands is their virginity. as properly whether they did replace, very few indian boys will ask somebody they prefer to have intercourse earlier marriage. i 'm no longer asserting that no one asks and all that ,however the norm is intercourse after marriage.
2016-12-08 08:41:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU DON"T
You can't make some one (inthis case two) like some one else.
But you have to be happy with your partner and not your parents.
2006-06-12 22:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to them and find out why they don't like her(could be legit reason) maybe you can explain to them after you find (White Lion's "when the children cry" is playing on radio==beautiful song.)out why they don't like her you plan to ask her to marry you and you'd like their blessing. Maybe they just don't know her yet and they don't know what to think.GOOD LUCK I hope this helps you.
2006-06-12 22:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by STACEY S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like or dislike her...be man enough to stand by your future wife! cus that's all that matters.
2006-06-12 23:06:45 · answer #8 · answered by KAKTUSBUTT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how much u love her. would u willing to to give up ur people for her. also, u really should ask ur self this, is she marrying u or ur parent? if u must, show ur parents wut she means to u, how much u love her, n how much u r willing to do for her, also show them her qualities that attracted u to fall in love with her. is kind of like making ur parents to fall in love with her just like u did
2006-06-12 22:42:08 · answer #9 · answered by hihi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy your own house.
2006-06-12 22:59:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋