I cheated on my boyfriend on holiday... it was NOT sex but i did kiss someone and i kissed him more than once, bumped into him the next day and did the same. I have never cheated before abd i love my boyfriend to death but we going through a rough patch and sometimes i just want to get up and leave. He never wants to do anything with me, even though we live together our lives couldnt be more seperate. I have been with him2 years in September and we couldnt be more suited but we dont seem to make a good couple...
Any ideas why im not feeling guilty? I am even thinking about meeting up with this boy from holiday as we exchanged numbers.
2006-06-12 21:13:10 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe you have just growen apart it happens then bordem sets in and you do things maybe you should'nt. Try talking with your b/f and see one way or another because if you dont you will end up cheating time and time again!
2006-06-12 21:18:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You wouldn't cheat on your partner if you were truly in love. Going through a rough patch would be no excuse to even kiss another person, have a think how you would see it if your partner used that excuse with you.
Relationships do go through bad patches, the advice I will give is to think long and hard about whether things are right or ever going to be right. Relationships can sort themselves out eventually, especially when the two people involved grow up and take one another into consideration but sometimes things might never work so its always worth thinking about.
Maybe a break would help you both, at least it would let you realise how you feel about each other - Whichever way it goes!
But thinking about meeting up with this other lad only shows that you are unhappy in your current place and that is unfair on both of you if you carry on this way. Try talking about things with your partner
2006-06-12 21:22:58 · answer #2 · answered by cljp2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're feeling guilty because cheating is WRONG!!!!
You need to be honest with your boyfriend and tell him that you have cheated on him and go your separate ways. Whether it was a kiss or sex it is the same thing and it is wrong! Just because you're going through a rough patch doesn't give you the right to cheat on him! So in other words, everytime you go through a rough patch you're going to cheat on your boyfriends? I think you should stay single for a while until you get your life sorted out and know what you want! I also think that you should put yourself in your boyfriends shoes, how would you feel if he had kissed another girl while on holiday?
2006-06-12 21:20:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, he's your boyfriend, not your husband! No one says that you even have to be in love with a boyfriend (which you probably aren't). If you want to cheat, it means you're not happy or satisfied with what you're getting out of your current relationship. Break up with the boyfriend and let him go find someone who is better suited for him. Go for holiday boy or someone else that makes you feel truely happy/content!
2006-06-12 22:03:42 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't beat yourself up about kissing a boy your bf should have treated you better. Your not feeling guilty because you know i am right. Move on from your present bfand go and have the time of your life with this other boy. Life is too short to just keep wondering what if. good luck.
2006-06-19 04:33:04 · answer #5 · answered by flymetothemoon279 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him you need to tell him what you done and how u feel and be honest and tell him u want t make it work.dont meet that other guy u will be making a mistake.i went through the exact same problem i kissed someone when i felt unloved that was atfer being with my boyfriend for 2 years,i didnt feel guilty he found out and i lost him then it hit me like light lightning and the onley thing i wanted to do was get my man back for good.and i luckily did but it hasnt been easy, at the moment tho i couldnt be happier i feel like i did at the start and we both come through stronger and we talk and show love alot more. dont meet that guy and dont keep that secreat to yourself or it will eat u up inside sooner or later n remember u dont know what you got till its gone. if you dont love him leave him but have time to urself dont go out with someone too soon.
2006-06-14 09:56:14 · answer #6 · answered by ldo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi iv been cheating on my boyfriend 2 and i also don't feel guilty maybe its because u love your boyfriend but not in the way you used to, like u really love caring for him but its not romance love. i think that's why u want to meet up with this other lad. Try askin ur self this, does this other lad give u butterfly's when u see him? does he make u smile when u think about him? Does he make your heart race. Now ask the same things about your boyfriend then you'll get the ans were ur looking for
2006-06-12 21:43:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you don't feel guilty because your not actually in love with your boyfriend.
you might love him but are not IN love with him if you know what i mean.
and maybe this new boy is just something you have been building up for a while as you have been through a rough patch.
and does it not bother you that he never wants to do anything with you?
it seems like your just flat mates rather than a couple by what you have said.
2006-06-12 21:54:58 · answer #8 · answered by clefairyz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't feel guilty, because you and your boyfriend aren't suited to each other, and you're not IN love with him. If you were as suited as reckon you are, you would make a good couple. You should leave him, rather than cheating on him. You're obviously not happy in your relationship.
2006-06-12 21:21:22 · answer #9 · answered by smurfette_au2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not feeling guilty because you don't love your boyfriend anymore.
That's nothing to feel bad about, you have got to a stage in your relationship where the love has gone and you have lost the feeling of feeling guilty for doing something bad.
If you don't love your boyfriend any more then maybe you should call it a day, before one of you does do something to hurt the other one.
2006-06-12 21:21:05 · answer #10 · answered by London girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not feeling guilty because its what you needed at the time and perhaps you dont love your boy friend because when you truley love someone you wouldnt cheat on them no matter what bu then again when couples are going through rough patches one party may crave the attention of the other sex and when they get it it makes them feel better without regret because its what they desearve at the least
2006-06-12 21:16:39 · answer #11 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋