2006-06-12 21:04:38 · 7 answers · asked by cinders 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You don't need to be in that kind of marriage, you can do better than that, take pride in yourself, and get out, get away from him, because he may be emotionally abusive right now, but it can turn to physical abuse later, and then it may be too late to get out except by way of a coffin, please, don't make the same mistake I did, I left only after my ex- cut my throat with a piece of barb wire wrapped around my throat, and shot a double barrel shotgun off by my left ear(hard hearing in that ear now) in front of our children. I thank God for nosy neighbors, that heard everything and called the police, so, I send out praise to all the nosy neighbors in Manchester, Tennessee. Get out now while you can, ask a friend to help you get out, or you can call the domestic violence shelter, and ask them to help you,, don't become a VICTIM of domestic Violence, be a SURVIVOR. Best of luck to you and God Bless, I will keep you in my prayers.
2006-06-12 21:45:01 · answer #1 · answered by tennessee_cherokee 3 · 11⤊ 2⤋
You need to help yourself , and leave his sorry butt !
Men like this do not change , it is not ever going to get better 4 you if you choose to stay . It might even eventually get worse . But , really who needs someone that puts , and holds you down and back all of the time ?
To keep your head about you , to make sure that you don't just stop caring about everything.... To keep all of your best qualities intact----> you have got to end this relationship ! Your lover is supposed to help you , not hurt you . And , i know that no one is perfect---> and at some point in any relationship you will get hurt . It does not have to be an on purpose , and over and over again kind of deal !
2006-06-13 04:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by listenup_yall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cinderella you need to be free to find your prince charming and i am being seriouse a man who treats you this way is not your true love nor soal mate,men who are abusive in this way have alot of anger and feel they can take it out on there wives,on the other hand he keeps doing it because you allow him to continue to treat you this way,take a stnad for your self,tell himt hat you have had a think about your feelings and now you have had enough and you will not be allowed to be treated in that way by him any more if he continues tell him you will leave because its not how you want to feel,he will soon change his whole aspect on this or he may not change and then you will know that it is time to leave him
2006-06-13 04:22:02 · answer #3 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
file for a devorce before the emotional abuse becomes physical. and as i have always said emotional abuse is worse it hurts from the inside out physical hurts on the outside in time that will heal but the inner you takes alot of time and possibly the wound may neveer heal...my personal opinion is to get a devorce find someone out there who respects you instead of hurts you ....good luck hun
2006-06-13 05:07:55 · answer #4 · answered by ford_lovergirl_69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time for a divorce.
But you won't divorce him though. Why because you actually like it. If you were really bothered by his abusive ways you would not be there now.
2006-06-13 04:16:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave now !!! No matter what he says ...been there didn't like it.......be firm do not let him get to you but I love you it will never happen again ...because it's a lie
2006-06-13 05:08:58 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get out of that realionship real fast contact a shelter in your area and find out what your option are good luck
2006-06-13 04:12:52 · answer #7 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋