My boyfriend says that it discuss him when I use a vibrator. I have stopped using them. Anyways is it wrong to masturbate? ( I know its not) but now I dont want to anymore and I just feel bummed.... WTF
2006-06-12 20:50:45 · 29 answers · asked by @->--- 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He´s jealous maybe?
But it´s your body. If you like a vibrator, go for it.
2006-06-12 20:56:35 · answer #1 · answered by Sue_C 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
It is not wrong to masturbate as it is very normal and many ppl do it...but even in the best of relationships there is something personal...so ur BF asking u to discuss before using is a problem....will he appreciate if u ask him to discuss wit u before he masturbates?????
He might be having his own perceptions and problems regarding masturbaion so u guys shd talk abt it and solve the issue...
all the best
2006-06-13 03:57:05 · answer #2 · answered by Adi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, well i may not be the authority on vibrators but guess what if you are having sex with your guy and still using a vibrator your guy might be thinking hes not able to satisfy you and hence this action. Try to see from a guy point of view .I mean i would be a mess if my girl still used a dildo to satisfy herself after sex.
tc
sid
2006-06-13 03:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by trekmate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend has an inferior-complex. I imagine he must think that he can not satisfy you. This however does not give him the right to forbid you anything, especially something as natural as masturbation. I suggest that you guys have a serious discussion about this and try to resolve this issue.
When talking to him try to be a little sensitive to what he is feeling too[ in regards to his inferior complex]
2006-06-13 03:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him involved, its all about control and he is jelous that he hasnt got control of your pleasure. So put ll the power and control in his hands by giving him control of the vibrator and then youcan both enjoy.
2006-06-13 03:54:25 · answer #5 · answered by tiny small 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stop. He is a BF, not a husband. There is no reason not to. If he is insecure and is demanding you stop, then he may not be the guy for you. As long as you are not cheating, there is no legitimate reason. Have fun with yourself.
2006-06-13 03:56:33 · answer #6 · answered by Joe M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with a vibrator. enjoy yourself. tell him its either the vibrator or juan.
2006-06-13 03:52:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tel Ur boyfriend to pleasure you more so you dont have to use a vibrator
2006-06-13 03:54:52 · answer #8 · answered by dizzel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are with him its better not to use a vibrator since he doesn't fancy it,but if you are alone then masturbate yourself
2006-06-13 03:55:57 · answer #9 · answered by rubzebred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to think if you want to be with a man that is jealous of something that takes batteries.
2006-06-13 04:02:36 · answer #10 · answered by rachellynn200 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋