I am having a huge fight with my friends. They are saying the wrong judgements about me, and my best friend knows those judgements about me aren't true. However, she won't even stand up for me because she doesn't want to get "involved" in the fight. Do you think she should be standing up for me since she's my best friend or should she just not say anything?
2006-06-12 19:46:03 · 5 answers · asked by turtle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i would like to think a best friend would have my back but the reality is some people are just to passive or shy to be involved in arguments
2006-06-12 19:50:14 · answer #1 · answered by ***BUTTERFLY*** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically she should of stood up for you, but you have to realize that..if your friends (that were making the judgments) were your best friends' friend too. You really can't make her pick sides. There are some friends out there that don't want to get involve in those kinds of problems to avoid losing any friends. Don't be mad for her, and try to understand for her. Just tell her that you aren't going to make her choose sides, but it would be great if she could of stood up for you. Good Luck =]
2006-06-19 09:17:28 · answer #2 · answered by trish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I knew you well and you were my best friend I would stand up for you at any time because I think you would do the same for me.
2006-06-12 19:51:30 · answer #3 · answered by Farhad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good friend will bail you out of jail. Your "best" friend will be sitting next to you saying, "Man, that was fun!" Do you follow?
2006-06-12 20:38:08 · answer #4 · answered by Grisheen . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she's really your best friend......do you?
2006-06-12 19:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by dingram337 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋