2006-06-12 19:43:19 · 15 answers · asked by Brandon 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know a lot of people will disagree with me, but I think it all depends upon the realtionship and the situation. Some relationships are more serious in a year than others are.
Many people say once a cheater, always a cheater. But I know that if I found out that my husband (been together 6 years) had cheated on me, it would be hard not to give him a second chance.
Naive? Maybe. But, honest.
2006-06-12 19:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by tortasinqueso 3 · 14⤊ 3⤋
People always say " if she or he cheated you, he/she will do it again at the second time around." But always remember the God forgives us all the time whenever we commit mistakes. He/she just need to realized her own mistake. I am not saying that you need to give her a chance. Just give it time, make her realize what she did was wrong. Dont put blame in yourself, its because of your the reason why she did that. Because in any relationship there is no reason to cheat... Honesty is one of the good foundation of building a good relationship.
2006-06-13 02:55:52 · answer #2 · answered by just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you be able to feel trusting of this person, if you try again! It depends on how secure or insecure you are,wondering when, if, and with who, or where is this person they are late! If you feel this way , what Sense does it make to try again! How anxious will it make you. Will you check on this person? Oh, so many questions? my answer is, once is too many times. Tears , Sorry and all those words, maybe meant when said, but they are not trust worthy in my eyes. NO!! You would need help and this person also in order to even try to work it out. How old are you! Learn from this experience use it to grow in your life!,
2006-06-13 03:10:35 · answer #3 · answered by my4dogs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO,it doesn't matter 1yr or 10yrs. once a cheater always a cheater....I could never trust my mate ever again and thats no way to live together without trust....trust is everything in a good marriage...It's just important as true love and loving...NO WAY IN HELL,DON'T LET THE DOOR HIT YOU IN THE AS* ON YOUR WAY OUT.....
Clowmy
2006-06-13 02:52:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think so cause you have a stronger bond built and a better chance of fixing the problem of course it also hurts more. there is more connection so i guess its all about rather you can really forgive and trust them again if not dont even waste your time.
2006-06-13 02:51:14 · answer #5 · answered by tammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. If I'm the one doing the cheating I'd say yes. But if its him, buh-BYE. Don't let the door slam on his cheatin' butt.
Yeah, its a double standard. I'm being honest.
2006-06-13 02:48:01 · answer #6 · answered by shukuken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope! Outa Here! See ya!
Don't even think about forgiving the skank.
Next!
2006-06-13 02:46:38 · answer #7 · answered by Shawne & Lexi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if someone cheated on me i could never fully trust them again so for me the answer is no
2006-06-13 02:44:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because they will keep cheating, sure be their friend but end the relationship.
2006-06-13 02:45:40 · answer #9 · answered by angleface 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no mate once a cheat always a cheat.
2006-06-13 02:47:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋