the guy i love has known for a year i love him. it's really obvious i still like him even though i try to make it unobvious. so i was going to tell him i like him. but someone has told me that he would of said something by now if he cared for me in that way.
what should i do, i cant go on forever just watching him and im scared im going to lose him.
2006-06-12 19:22:21 · 12 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Look at it this way... you are going to lose him if you DON'T say anything!!
The only way to find out if he feels the same way is to tell him! You might get a pleasant surprise! He might be having the same shyness problem that you are having!
Tell him!! Good luck!!
2006-06-12 19:26:53 · answer #1 · answered by DearAbby 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hard one. He might know and be shy. Some guys are like that. Course it's hard to be you. Wow. Ok, you are going to have to be a little agressive to find out. I'd wait till he is sitting down. Walk up to him and put your foot on the chair between his legs. Not on his crotch but close. Lean in and look him in the eye and say. "I want you to ask me out on a date." If he says "no" then you know. Dating needs to start or not. You need some indication where this is going. If he says "yes" then ask him where he is taking you. Ask him how he wants you to dress. Tell him your favorite color.
2006-06-13 02:38:17 · answer #2 · answered by Theo Black 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes a guy! Need i say more? He probaly is shy and scared he might loose u if he does anything!
Ask him yourself! Dont be aggressive, just be assertive and let him know you are serious! Good Luck and i hope for the best!
2006-06-13 11:47:50 · answer #3 · answered by lonely_sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should tell him that you like him. It is better than keeping those feelings bottled up inside. I know this is hard because I haven't been able to get up the courage to tell my crush that I like him. The worse he can say is no which feels really bad, but it is worse to spend your life wondering what if?
2006-06-13 02:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by Krista P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a problem like this one..i was in love with this guy and i talked to one of my friends and told her i was finally gonna tell him, and she said that he would have said something to me by now if he felt the same, so i never told him. i found out later that she liked him too and knew that he liked me, and she didnt want me to tell him cause then she wouldnt have a shot with him.......so tell him!!
2006-06-13 02:30:25 · answer #5 · answered by Tori 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been in that same exact situation!!! like seriously, cause i was told that if he liked me he would have said sumpin by now but i told him that i like him and he asked me out like 10 min l8r. so go for it and tell him that you like him and make sure you e-mail me what happens, cause i have never met any one who has been through that situation!! e-mail me at:
s_j_roo_92@yahoo.com
2006-06-13 02:29:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u guys friends?
well if you are,, then DONT tell hhim. and maybe he freeels the same way.. like he feels that way but hes afraid that u dont feel the samke way
2006-06-13 02:26:03 · answer #7 · answered by this old loser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be simple, tell him that you wanted to be with him because you love him. and ask him if he love you and keep you inside his heart.
be easy and true
Good Luck
2006-06-13 02:33:16 · answer #8 · answered by OrangeApple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should be honest with him its best ... cuz then he will tell you have he feels and then you will know if you should try and move on or if he is the one for you!! good luck!
2006-06-13 02:25:26 · answer #9 · answered by InSaNe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him then just go for it.Best of luck
2006-06-13 02:27:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋