Well my friend is 6 weeks pregnet, was kicked out and living with her boyfriend. And right now she is in a relationship with signs thatt he is going to abuse her. He says he wants to but is holding back. What should I tell her??
2006-06-12 19:02:23 · 11 answers · asked by kkvillegas 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
the truth. she does not deserve that and if her does hurt her he may even hurt the baby and that is so wrong. if you tell her it is then out of your hands. if she choses to listen to you she will leve and things will be fine but if not then its her own fault but just be there to keep an eye on her and if anything happens make sure you report him to the cops. the baby has done nothing wrong and should not be put at risk.
Good luck
2006-06-12 19:05:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, I have to read this over.. "He says that he wants to but is holding back" ? Ok, so he's admitting to wanting to abuse her, and you are right the signs are there, and they would probably get worse when she has the baby. If she got kicked out, she obviously thinks she has no place to go, and this is where she has to stay. As her friend, get her out of there as soon as you can, why not let her stay with you for a little while until she could find a place of her own? Let her parents know as well what this guy is threatening to do to her. I know she got kicked out, but there is no harm in trying to see if they may reconsider what is happening in her life. They are her parents, and they do love her, although right now it seems very hard to do. If that doesn't work, there are Women's Community Houses or "out houses" as they are called, where she can stay until she gets back on her feet. Check them out in your area, they will accommodate her, and protect her..for now.
Most of all, get her out while she still has the chance, the poor girl is probably getting verbally abused to make up for the lack of physical abuse this man is capable of doing to her. For the sake of her life, and the life of her unborn child....get her out of there as quickly as you can!
Good Luck!!
2006-06-13 02:11:46 · answer #2 · answered by micheypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can tell her except that she should find somewhere else to stay. Tell her to stay with a close friend or a relative - if her bf is showing signs he is going to hit her she needs to leave. Once he starts abusing her things are going to get bad, she could even miscarry. She needs to think about her and her baby and that means living in a safe place.
2006-06-13 02:05:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to get her own place before anything unfortunate happen to her and the baby she carrying. If u see something bad coming you have to tell her as she's your friend. But after doing your part she refuse to listen than too bad for her. Jus wish her luck.
2006-06-13 02:07:53 · answer #4 · answered by curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT SHE HAS TO THINK ABOUT HER BABY AND RIGHT NOW AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP IS NOT WHERE SHE NEEDS TO BE AND IF HE ABUSES HER WHEN SHE HAS HER BABY HE WILL ABUSE THE BABY SO SHE SHOULD END THIS RELATIONSHIP BEFORE SHE GIVES BIRTH SO THAT SHE DOES NOT HAVE TO BRING HER CHILD INTO IT
2006-06-13 02:07:51 · answer #5 · answered by <<SEXY MOMMA>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth before it is too late. She and her baby deserve better than that.
2006-06-13 02:05:49 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her out before its to late for her and the baby. if she stays with him now, she may become dependent on him and it will be harder to leave. find her another place to stay and get her out no matter what!
2006-06-13 02:09:16 · answer #7 · answered by kantriella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another boyfriend/ tell the police/hide at least?????
2006-06-13 02:04:35 · answer #8 · answered by Snow Angel~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to get out before he hurts her or their unborn child.
2006-06-13 02:04:42 · answer #9 · answered by amanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, she will find out soon enough.
2006-06-13 02:07:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋