ok i have known this guy since the age of seven and i guess u can say i fell in love with him. well at the beginning of last summer me and him started to makeout but he had a girlfriend and he seemed like he had feelings for me.well things went sour when his gf found out and we stopped talking for a couple of months then we started talking again and messed around a little but he had no gf.and again things went sour. now i saw him last weekend and we seemed to be fine with the whole situation. and later that day i made a gesture to him to meet me somewhere in the backyard where we could be alone i wasnt serious i just wanted to see his reaction well i guess he wanted too but he left and i dont know wat to do next time i see him.i mean do u think he had or has feelings for me or am i just a toy to him?
2006-06-12 18:13:48 · 16 answers · asked by JUDITH S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He's just not that into you.
2006-06-12 18:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by theFo0t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't confuse love with infatuation or with feeling comfortable with an old friend. Love takes hard work between two people. A crush is easy, love is hard work. Secondly, if he is willing to cheat on his GF, then he is a lech and you should definately not be more than friends. Just tell him, "Hey, I'm sorry that things got out of hand. I feel really wierd about it. I hope that we can put it behind us and be friends again." It may sting a little, but putting it off is just going to make it worse.
2006-06-13 01:18:55 · answer #2 · answered by ksjazzguitar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a toyboy to me . He had a gf and he cheated on her, that says a lot about a guy, he's a cad! And i think he was just having fun with u honey,he's not interested in a relationship and not even dating u. the fact that he left after u gestured to him, shows he's no interested. there are more fish in the sea ..:)
2006-06-13 01:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by princess h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think instead of you making the first move next time, wait and see if he approaches you. He might only be messing around with you becuz you are there and willing to do so.
2006-06-13 01:16:10 · answer #4 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he got mad and left because you wasn't willing to make out with him then that's his problem he had plenty of opportunities to come to you and try to make things work yall known each other for quite a while and he if he really wanted to make out with you he would've been asked you out and everything would have probably been alright for you two
2006-06-13 01:20:24 · answer #5 · answered by meckadance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make someone your priority, when you are only their option. The best thing you can do is go on with your life and find someone is who just as obviously smitten with you --him knowing that you will always be there makes it easier for him to mess around with your head and continue to look around.
2006-06-13 01:20:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don beat around the bush.....ask him directly.....if he is recluctant to ans or gives excuse.....dump him ........a person who don know how to take care of your feeling don deserve you....there are a lot of ppl out there who can give more than what you expect....i Know,.... breaking up is painful but trust me it;s worth it. Better now then later might tooo late to back off. When you find the right one, you'll thank your lucky stars. Don forget to pray...!
2006-06-13 02:04:38 · answer #7 · answered by Ynot78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i do think you should move on. depending on your guys age he probally just wants to have fun right now with as many girls as he wants. Just let him go but keep the friendship, and move on with a guy that wants you.
2006-06-13 01:20:19 · answer #8 · answered by Ray Ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are a toy to him, do you really want some one who you know has already been with you when he had a girlfriend?? boys are out for one thing............wether you give it or the next girl does........maby when he is with you, he wants you, but when "out of sight, out of mind" ...............................
2006-06-13 01:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by Merisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you just ask him? I hate silly games and I am sure guys feel the same!
2006-06-13 01:16:22 · answer #10 · answered by destineypyle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound to promising to me. Find some one who is into you.
2006-06-13 01:19:35 · answer #11 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋