My boyfriend and I are great together, we both really enjoy hockey and have the same taste in most things, the only thing we can't agree on is sex. I feel like I am always the one trying to get it from him. He can only get it up once a night, and even then he has a hard time with it. At one point we didn't have sex for almost 2 weeks, which really started to get to me. I know for a fact he's not getting "it" from anywhere else. He's in his early 30's (I'm 20) and I'm beginning to think maybe he just has a hard time keeping up? No pun intended. I read pineapple was an aphrodisiac so I tried it and it worked on him... always does. I don't want to offend him by saying something and definately don't want to dump him... But what's a girl to do? I could have sex several times a day and still want more! I know he knows because he gets disappointed when he thinks he disappoints me, truth is, he can't disappoint me. What should I do?
2006-06-12 18:09:03 · 5 answers · asked by Sam 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
SEX IS MENTAL. IF HE CANT KEEP IT UP U HAVE TO STIMULATE HIS MIND. I SEND MY MAN NASTY LIL TEXT MSGS AND NASTY PICS TO GET HIM EXCITED. TALK DIRTY TO HIM DURING SEX, MAKE HIM FEEL SPECIAL-LIKE HE'S THE BIG BOSS TELL HIM WHAT U WANT HIM TO DO TO U. THAT HAS 100 PERCENT ALWAYS WORKED FOR ME EVEN WITH THE WORST SEX PARTNERS. IF THAT WONT WORK HE MAY HAVE A PROBLEM. ITS HARD TO TALK TO A MAN ABOUT SOMETHING LIKE THAT AND EVEN HARDER FOR THEM TO ADMIT THAT THEY MAY HAVE A PROBLEM. BUT, IF THATS THE CASE TRY TO GO ABOUT IT IN A NICE CONCERNED WAY-JUST TELL HIM ITS BEEN BOTHERING U AND YOURE WORRIED ABOUT HIM. I FEEL MUCH BETTER KNOWING THAT IM NOT THE ONLY FEMALE NYMPHO AROUND HERE. LOL
2006-06-12 18:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 3⤋
It is possible that he has a problem with impotency. Normally this happens with older males, but I have been told that it can happen to younger guys, too. I knew a young lady who told me that she once had a boyfriend in his early 30's with this problem. (Honestly, I do not have this problem yet.) Realize that this is a sensitive issue for many men. Try and bring it up in a delicate way and suggest that he see his doctor and be placed on a medication that will help him maintain more erections.
I just looked up this topic on WebMD. They say the following:
"Erectile dysfunction can occur at any age but is more common in older men ......"
I have posted the link to this article down below. It gives an overview of erectile dysfunction and offers advice. I hope this helps.
2006-06-12 18:20:58 · answer #2 · answered by Zippy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a case of impotency. You can try herb which is availabel in India. You will get the powder of that herb in packed bottles.
Its name is ASWAGANDHA. It is known as Indian ginseng. It really work. What you have to do is, you mix one table spoon this powder in the milk and give him to drink in the empty stomach in the morning time and in the night time too.
You can expect a real difference.
Wishing you the best.
2006-06-12 20:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by VINU 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought that his problem might be physiological? There is no shame is seeking a physician's help. Maybe then he will find out is is related to his health or some medication he is taking.
Good luck Girl
2006-06-12 18:16:04 · answer #4 · answered by Cee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing love and understanding cannot cure, except physiological disorders. Penetration is not the sole source of pleasure and satisfaction. Try other ways till he attains confidence.
2006-06-12 18:28:35 · answer #5 · answered by shakira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋