Here goes I let a looser, drug/alchoholic, that I had been telling for the past year that I realy did not want to be in a realationship and that I could not support him while he tried getting his disability for a head injury that is not for real he just wanted a female to support him and so I broke it off 3 wks before he went to the nut house which he spent only one week there came out and decided to hook up with a chick from there and started making me think it was him rejecting me because he changed for the better NOT. He went right back to drinking and now he is moving with this girl how do they get in our heads? and how do we get them out? one more thing he is still married to another women.
2006-06-12 18:08:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You wont like this but it's the best advice you will get.Grow up ,move on, get over it ,I'm done..
2006-06-12 18:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it apparently made his day. maybe in a weird way (apparently a weird way) it actually helped him to get help for himself. God bless him i say, and don't worry about it. you did him a favor, but if you think he's going to thank you for it, well surprise, surprise!!! he won't. he knows you think he's a loser, do you think he wants to hear it???? of course not. self-preservation, that's what he's doing, it's perfectly natural. also give him a break, he's obviously been through some rough times (that's what made him the loser to begin with) and he's trying to pick himself up and start over. just go your way, and let him go his.
2006-06-13 01:18:03 · answer #2 · answered by vanessa w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! It sound like you have really grown from his having such problems...good for you..Now keep moving on to bigger and better things...Make your self realize you deserve better,and that is your goal....don't get jealous of the other girl... she has no idea what she is in for yet..That was smart to let him think he rejected you.. You know better.move on
2006-06-13 01:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by mom of a boy and girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on Earth would you possibly care what this guy thinks? Find a new man and put him out of your head as quickly as possible.
2006-06-13 01:11:10 · answer #4 · answered by Guelph 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to leave him alone and move on with your life. As long as you are involved in his drama and continue to talk to him he will stay in your head. Just move on and find a healthy guy to get involved with.
2006-06-13 01:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
something is wrong with you just move on and stop being jealous of his new girl. he was a bad influence on you and really had your mind going. go get your mind together and find another guy. there is somebody for everyone.
2006-06-13 01:17:12 · answer #6 · answered by msspongebob26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, my question to you is: Why do you even care? Obviously he's a complete loser, so why should you even give a flying rats *** what he thinks?
2006-06-13 01:14:25 · answer #7 · answered by Dave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek help from a psychiatrist before it is too late.
2006-06-13 01:10:40 · answer #8 · answered by fmt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. Move on. Let him be a NUTJOB on his own time. Why do you care what his perception of reality is? NEXT!
2006-06-13 01:11:04 · answer #9 · answered by Shawne & Lexi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You yourself have answered your question !!! if you call him a looser why are you worried about him. let him think anything.
2006-06-13 01:14:04 · answer #10 · answered by bnandk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋