2006-06-12 17:51:03 · 21 answers · asked by MEASON1977 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he is repeatedly is cheating on you then wake up he does not really love you as he should! I really do not know all the sighns but you may want to hire a private invetigator to see if he is or not as well. Does he treat you with less respect and love then he did before. Is he showing less interested in sex with you? These are some of the signs. Also talk to his friends and where here works and see if they have ever seen him with another woman. Follow him one day without him knowing it and watch him. Check his pockets when he gets home and also check his wallet and his vehicle too. What makes you think he is cheating? Has he ever been unfaithful to you before?
2006-06-13 00:26:52 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sad when you have to ask if your spouse even loves you. I'm sorry you feel that way, but it means something. Listen to yourself and to what he does, not what he says. Actions really do speak louder than words ~ words are cheap and easy to use to confuse. It's very easy to want to ignore the signs. I think it's healthier to confront your spouse.
Signs: Physical changes, like losing weight. Not wanting to do things with you any more, like not taking a walk with you because he wants to call his girlfriend while you are out. Buys new underwear. Withholding money, so that you wonder where some of your money went or you come up short at the end of the month. Starts to blame you for things (often silly things) to justify his behavior. Unexplained absences and being glad to see you go places without him. Either not as interested in sex or acting more interested. Your intuition is telling you that something is wrong! Good luck. It's a very painful issue.
2006-06-26 13:56:08 · answer #2 · answered by ~Jazzy~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean "besides the norm"? If you don't trust your spouse, then find out why. Make sure it's not for real or your own issues with trust. Then, if it is him cheating for real, be prepared to confront him and show him the door -- don't allow yourself to dissolve and think "oh I love him". Because he honestly wasn't thinking of his undying love for you when he cheated -- IF he cheated. Good luck.
2006-06-23 13:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by brilliantyetconfused 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1. Changes his dressing style (Going from Steve Urkel to Denzel Washington is One)
#2. Is always mad for nothing
#3. Checks his self out 3-4 times in the mirror before he leaves the house
#4. Hides his phone, and when it does ring, he's looking at it as if he's debating should he answer the muthaf*cka or not
#5.Starts hanging out with "HIS BOY" all of a sudden every off day
2006-06-26 20:32:09 · answer #4 · answered by shawnthavirgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask what signs are that your spouse is cheating on you then you have serious problems. Talk to your spouse, if you have nay kind of relationship worth having they will be honest with you about what is going on and if they aren't cheating then you guys should discuss what is making you suspect it in the first place. Who knows maybe you will be able to laugh about it.
2006-06-13 01:13:06 · answer #5 · answered by A.W. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The greatest sign of all hun is your intution. Do you think he is cheating on you? If you do... 9 out of 10 times He is. If you truley don't, then he probably isn't and you need to relax and enjoy eachother. If men want to cheat, they will, no matter the walls and buildings we try to put in their way, if they want to, THEY WILL!
So once you let go of that control you truley will be happier and more in love than you could have imagined. I wish you the very best
2006-06-13 00:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by Brianne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's most likely cheating on you. whether it's only in his head or has materialized to an actual reality doesn't matter. all men get sick of their women. it's true and inevitable. by nature we want sex with many different women. if society was designed so, we would bone all the time. but, because we exist in the arcane hell of ancient moral and Disney like fantasies women are fooled into believing there is something substantial about their men. maybe there is. but, between every great thing about him there are thoughts of having sex with other women. always and forever. I am constantly thinking about sex with other women. especially when an attractive one walks by-which is like every few moments for a guy because our standards of who we will have sex with are low. your bf now is thinking about it, i am thinking about, your dad is thinking about, your next bf will think about and even your sons will. you cannot stop this. get real. accept it. and learn to love for reasons other than sex. everyone will cheat on you so let them! have fun!
2006-06-25 22:48:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I have to say is if you are thinking that your man is cheating than you need to move on. Being in a relationship, you shouldnt have to go through this. So, if you mind is going crazy about this cheating business...I hate to say this but get out of the relationship and move on....IT AINT WORTH IT
2006-06-25 20:42:20 · answer #8 · answered by Diona S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he breathing? Guys look at women like cars, no matter how fine a ride you have, you always see another that might need a test drive. You're thinking to hard! You cannot worry about it or it will be self-fulfilling. Just be able to love yourself and you won't need any guy who is going to disrespect you.
2006-06-24 15:20:54 · answer #9 · answered by The Burro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your spouse whole personality changes his conversation is short, he has no interest in you and he always comes up with things he have to do. Or he really don't care what you do or where you go in fact he encourages you to go out with your friends.
2006-06-13 01:18:00 · answer #10 · answered by askmeguru21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋