My gf and I were just kissin at her house and she asked me to have sex. I'm only 13 and yes, hormones (not sure how to spell it) are driving me crazy and I didn't know what to do so I told her I had to go and she is going to try to have sex with me tomorrow. Only reason I'm considering not doing it is because I am 13.
What should I do?
2006-06-12 17:50:42 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My gf is almost 16.
2006-06-12 18:39:34 · update #1
... you should also consider the possibility that she IS already pregnant (!!!) and is now trying desperately to find a looser to be the "father" of her child....
2006-06-12 18:40:10 · answer #1 · answered by DragosMD 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
For one how old is this girl? and for 2 u are to young to be thinking about sex or even having sex. Lord seems like ur girlfriend is pretty fast. stick to not doing that's a great choose for u honey. Do not give into what she wants,focus on school and figuring out what u want to do or be when u grow up. And if u see her tomorrow say know ur not ready. If she can't understand that then maybe u need to find someone who will
2006-06-12 18:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by SEXXYDARKCHOCO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! For God Sakes your only 13!!!!
I'm telling you, if she can't wait you need to let her go. If she's pushy now, image how pushy she will be in the future. Ex-specially is she gets pregnant. How would you support a baby at 13! You still live with your parents, right? You are not done living your life. Don't risk having a baby just because you don't know how to say no. If she gets to hot and heavy for you, tell her she needs to go home and go finish your self off in the bathroom. Whatever it takes but DON'T DO IT!!!!!!!!!! Man, your not even out of school yet. Tell her point blank: you can wait, or you can go. If she starts winning, let her go. There will be other girl who just want to have fun, not sex.
2006-06-12 17:59:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this must be about what women claim "females mature quicker than males" dogma.
Here is the reality... Lets say you two have sex... She gets pregnant around age 18... But you're still 16... You.... WILL...... BE...... COURT ORDERED TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT. YOU WILL NOT BE ABLE TO OR HAVE AN EXTREMELY DIFFICULT TIME FINISHING SCHOOL, BUT EXPECTED TO WORK. PAYING A MINIMUM OF ANYWHERE TO $300. TO $800. FOR ONE KID. NOW, DEPENDING ON WHAT JUDGE YOU GET... THIS COULD EITHER GO EXTREMELY WORSE... OR JUST WORSE FOR YOU. YOU WILL BE BRANDED AS A "TYPICAL MALE SEX FIEND" BY YOUR LOCAL ULTRA-FEMINIST ORGANIZATION DOWN THE BLOCK FROM YOU -- NOT TO MENTION A "DEAD BEAT" EVENTUALLY, OR RIGHT FROM THE GET GO. COUNT ON NEVER SEEING THIS CHILD YOU CREATED BECAUSE YOU WILL BE SLAVING TO THE BONE TO PAY THAT 18 YR OLD FEMALE HUNDREDS OF DOLLARS... LOSS OF ALL PARENTAL RIGHTS--DUE SOLELY BEING THE FATHER. ALSO.... DONT PUT PAST THE RADICAL FEMINISTS PLACING YOUR PICTURE ON SOME BILLBOARD TO MAKE "YOU AS AN EXAMPLE FOR OTHER KIDS"--BECUASE YOU ARE NOW DEEMED A BAD MALE CHILD--SEX PERVERT--OR POSSIBLE RAPIST (YEAH, FEMS WOULD AD "RAPIST" SEEMS YOU ARE MALE).
YOU THINK IM JOKING?
IF ANYONE DENIES WHAT I JUST TYPED? YOU ARE NOT ONLY IN DENIAL, BUT HAVE YOUR HEAD SO FAR DEEP IN SAND THAT YOU HAVE NO SENSE OF REALITY.
Be a hero, son..... Be the smarter of the two. Don't give into peer pressure. Had the tables been turn and some girl saying "my boy friend wants sex, but i dont know"... Every female would say "he is a sex-fiend pervert.... typical male.... always wanting sex...." and for the teenaged girl to "respect herself" and to leave the guy...... Son, lets be SMARTER... WISER... Lets not fall under victimization.... let her dig her own whole at the expense from another male victim... Dont make it your victimization.
Oh..... and I can garauntee you... perhaps even most of these females who've posted thie opinions? Have probably already have had sex once within teenaged years. As the national research shown that girls far exceeds young boys.... as for having sex at a very young age....... Once again, this must be that "girls are smarter" dogma that women keep talking about...
Oh... and by the looks of what some of the female opinions state... Make sure you take note in what one female did say... which is "don't listen to her whinning..." or "take care of yourself, not her selfishness"... "if she is too pushy, leave her"...... Let me also add my own two cents here as well.....
IF she HITS, KICKS, BITES, THROWS OBJECTS, OR KICKS YOU IN THE GROIN... PLEASE... REPORT HER VIOLENT BEHAVIOR!!! FEMALES OF ALL AGES DO THIS TO ALL MALES OF ALL AGES ALL THE TIME... IT IS ABUSE, IT IS VIOLENCE AGAINST MALES. PLEASE, REPORT HER BEHAVIOR AND SHE JUST MIGHT GET HELP. Reason I say "might"? Is because when a female physically abuses a male, it is acceptable in our society. Everyone thinks being hit by an object or kicked in the groin is soo funny if she does it to him... Or that it doesnt actually hurt him at all -- "females are weak and innocent... they cant hurt anybody".... WRONG! its abuse. Report her actions!!
2006-06-12 21:38:16 · answer #4 · answered by Timmmay! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T! Virgintiy is so special, you will grow to realise that when you get older!! When you do that once it takes your innocence away forever. enjoy being a kid until you are the right age, and most importantly you find the ONE special person the give yourself to. At 13 you cannot have that. enjoy being 13. you DON NOT deserve this pressure. so tell her to stop, or jsut let her be (leave). ANd just wiat for the RIGHT one! hope that helps!
2006-06-12 17:53:23 · answer #5 · answered by rocker86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are right not have sex, just because you are 13. I think the best age to do it is older and when ready. It will be a great experience and you will respect her and yourself more. Just tell her how you feel and if she can not understand than find someone else who will. If she does than she is a great gal.
2006-06-12 18:17:42 · answer #6 · answered by Jason L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wont say dont do it cause ur to young..but its true....sex should be done cause both want toand not feel presured into it..im a mom of a 14 year old and i know that someday it will happen...but as for being so young and for the old...sex isnt everything....if u dont feel like you should then dont..if she really loves you she will understand...
2006-06-12 19:52:32 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 17 i ran into this problem a long time ago. Take my advice and try not to do it but if the time comes tomm then come prepared use a condom plz if its gonna happen just be safe
2006-06-12 17:52:43 · answer #8 · answered by mhsstudent2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omgsh she needs SERIOUS help. I would break up the relationshpi, your not even in HIgh School yet. Good for you on standing your ground and leaving. I would tell her how immature she's being adn taht she's obviously not ready for that. Also she needs to not give herself away like that. Please stay strong and say no, break up if you ahve to. Good luck! Don't do it.
2006-06-12 17:53:33 · answer #9 · answered by surfer4776 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her there's no rush and you're not ready for that type of responsibility yet. Can you imagine not being able to enjoy your youth because you have to take care of your child.
2006-06-12 17:57:47 · answer #10 · answered by askmeguru21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Ur parents probably are not ready to raise another child and pregnancy can result. UR DECISION NOT TO IS THE RIGHT ONE!!!!!!!1
2006-06-12 17:55:01 · answer #11 · answered by ashleyshoresstr8g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋