I had three Asian friends.But one day they were mean to me with no reason and told me that we aren't friends anymore.I liked Asian people before this.Now i feel like I'm very disappointed in them.When I see Asian, it reminds me about my hurted feelings.I don't want to be Racist.But when I see someone Asian, I feel really bad.What should I do?
2006-06-12 17:40:01 · 16 answers · asked by Flippy 3 in Travel ➔ Asia Pacific ➔ Japan
i talked to them- they went away from me not even listening!
2006-06-12 17:49:05 · update #1
At first they were nice with me and then they started to hate me with no reason!
2006-06-13 13:15:57 · update #2
Two Korean, one Japanese
2006-06-13 13:17:02 · update #3
Get over it...
2006-06-12 17:43:11 · answer #1 · answered by DmanLT21 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think you deserve to know why these girls treated you meanly and no longer consider you a friend. If you feel bad when you see an Asian, then don't make it so hard on yourself. It's natural to shy away from things that hurt us before. You can avoid Asians until you are healed of your pain.
I have been hurt and betrayed by a friend before. Now I think that was blessing in disguise, because it revealed his true nature and prevented further damage he could have inflicted on me if we have remained friends.
Hopefully, future events will show you that this painful episode is all for the best.
2006-06-13 03:33:03 · answer #2 · answered by ferdiehernandez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have really mean asian friends, you didn't figure out what happened? Anyway just because your three friends were mean to you, doesn't mean every single asian out there is mean. I'm asian, do I seem mean to you? I'm a really nice, caring guy. Just move on with your life, knowing that those three asian friends were mean to you, not the whole asian community.
2006-06-13 00:46:07 · answer #3 · answered by House, M.D. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they have problems , yes that is fine..
but do you think you have problems too?
Don't expect people to be good to you everytime..they have time to be good and time to be mean but that's what people are. You can't keep blaming these friends of yours and not wanting to have another Asian friends..
I had many friends, but I can;t keep them all, I have to go on with the flow... the more you accepted friends, the more you would forget what happened in the past,, friends come and go,
If I have problems with somebody I would talk to them and if they decided not to talk to me. it is their problem. why make guilt of it.. you can't control eveyone to like you.
If you keep that pride in you, it would control you from having many Asian friends.
I would tell you this, because I have been with people who have problems with dealing with their friends that they think they don't give them too much that they don't even remember sending them letters or thanking them.. they felt guilt. NO. you did your part to be their friends and whatever happens when there is no more communications, just remind yourself..YOU CAN"T CONTROL EVERYTHING. iy would happen and you would find another friend again and might loose them again..just enjoy being with them the time they are around...
well, good luck and open your hearts..don't let pride and guilt take you away from being friendly,
2006-06-13 11:21:03 · answer #4 · answered by Ny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats no reason to not like Asians. Im sure things like that have happened before with people of your own race. But do you act the same way with them? So you should get over it.
2006-06-13 00:45:53 · answer #5 · answered by dog_hell_red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have to change urself. Be as you had been before and try to find some good peoples. Good and bad personalities are everywhere in this world. It wont depends on race. Good luck for your next (asian) friend.
2006-06-13 00:53:16 · answer #6 · answered by surya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like those three were not your friends to begin with. They are the ones with the problem, but do not judge their deeds because of their being Asian, but perhaps of lack of maturity.
2006-06-13 00:44:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you should just give other asian a chance. Dont look at them as asian but as a person.
2006-06-13 00:43:42 · answer #8 · answered by divalicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friends before you judge other Asian people.
2006-06-13 00:44:00 · answer #9 · answered by --~-_.*._-~-- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-13 00:49:43 · answer #10 · answered by batook j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should have a casual talk with your fried without fighting, and just ask her "What did I do that made you angry?" and go on about how you value the friendship and when talking to them BE CALM. Anger never helps a conflict.
2006-06-13 00:44:47 · answer #11 · answered by ACE1_11_7717 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋