He's says you know i love you sometimes then he'll say itss hard for me to love anybody b/c of a past relationship and its ruining my marrige and i love him so much!!!! what can i do???
2006-06-12 17:17:29 · 4 answers · asked by If_OnLy_YoU_cOULD 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He loves you like he can --- and you love him like you can ---- you need to stop analyzing how deep is his love according to your standards.... accept and love him for who he is ---- too much of the "he don't love me like he should' conversations and he will be gone ---
2006-06-12 17:28:24 · answer #1 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to learn to love and forgive him for his past. Did you bring he of baggage and pain from your last relationship that did not work out into this marriage? I understand where he is coming from but he has to understand you are not the same woman that hurt him before. He needs to Give you a chance because you are different and trust me when i say this. NOT all women are the same!!!! I feel that you both need counseling and help to heal from the past and to learn to love and cherish and trust each other or you will ultimatley end up losing each other and this marriage! If you need to talk i am here and a great website is http://www.marriagetoday.org and also http://www.marriagebuilders.com Ask them for help and pray with this too. Also apologize to each other for this anything you have done to hurt each other throuh all of this and ask each other for forgiveness for it.. Hugs to you both! Love him where he is at and be patient with him while he tries to sort through and heal from his past pain and love and cherish him and be the best wife that you know how to be. Spoil him rotten and treat him like a King! Surprise him with a full body massage when he gets home later today and tell him how much you love him!!!! How does he show you that he loves you. Also do lots of things with him that he likes doing and spend lots of time with him!
2006-06-12 23:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you want him to love you?? And if he says he cannot love you, get out before it gets worse.
2006-06-12 17:21:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
show him the points u know he is missin bcos he might not know wat he is doing to u.sit him down and let him know ow u feel.and also u nid to study him first
2006-06-12 18:40:41 · answer #4 · answered by mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋