IT ALL STATED WHEN I LET MY VERY ATTRACTIVE SISTER STAY WITH ME FOR A FEW MONTHS AFTER HER DIVORCE. SHE IMMEDIALTY STATED FLIRTING OPENLY WITH MY BOYFRIND BOB WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 7 YEARS. I DISMISSED IT AS INNOCENT SHE WAS MY SISTER BOB HAS BEEN UNFAITHFULL IN THE PAST. WELL ONE MOURNING BOB WAS IN THE MOOD BUT I SAID I DID NOT HAVE TIME I HAD TO BRING MY SON TO WORK AND GO TO SCHOOL. THEN HE SAID " WHERES SUE" I SAID SHE SLEEPING ON THE COUCH. I LEFT LEAVING THEM ALONE AS I OFTEN DID. WHEN I RETUNED HOME SUE SAID BOB CALLED HER ON HER CELL PHONE WHILE SHE WAS IN THE SHOWER. I SAID "WHAT BOB DOESNOT EVEN HAVE YOUR NUMBER" I TOLD HER TO CALL HIM AND SEE WHAT HE WANTED HE SAID HE NEVER CALLED HER. I STARTED SHAKING AND SUE SAID WOW YOU REALLY GET UPSET. I LATER CONFRONTED SUE SHE FIRST DENIED IT. THEN SHE MADE A COMMENT ABOUT THE SIZE OF HIS PENIS. I COMFRONTED HER AGAIN SHE SAID SHE F***** HIM MORE THAN ONCE BECAUSE I NEVER GIVE IT TO.HIM HE DENIES IT IF COURSE WHAT DO YOU THINK?
2006-06-12 17:01:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I GIVE HIM GREAT SEX. THATS NOT WHY MEN CHEAT I ALSO AM VERY ATTRACTIVE BLONE HAIR BLE EYES 110 lbs 5'2'"CONSIDERED A HOTTIE I HATE WHEN PEOPLE ASSUME. I DO EVERTHING SEXUALY. THAT IS NOT WHY MEN CHEAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-12 18:09:25 · update #1
it's hard to tell because I don't know whose most likely to lie to you but if bob cheated on you before then most likely he did it again you should have left him the first time once a cheater always a cheater. But I also wouldn't ever let my sister get away with something like that family shouldn't do that to each other. Sorry but it looks like you need to get out on your own and leave both of thoses jerks to rot! Good luck and remember it's better to be single and find someone you can truly trust then die with someone you can't!
2006-06-12 17:06:59 · answer #1 · answered by MelC 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree with sweet blonde, never let a female stay with you and your man no matter if it is family or friend. People are very scandelous. If she really cared about you being a sister she would not do that. Even if nothing happened and she is just trying to get a kick out of you. Your sister should never want anything you have touched. Why is he calling her cell phone and how did he get the number. This is a scandel I would knock the **** out of my sister and beat the **** out of him. They both are trashy for that. He his going to deny it, that is natural. You should take some time out for yourself. Get away from the both of them and think about what is the next step for you. It's about you now
2006-06-12 17:32:43 · answer #2 · answered by Making Changes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never put your significant other - be it male or female - in a situation with someone of the opposite sex for anything.
I did this with an attorney that I knew for my gf's divorce and all he did was try to f-her and be her boyfriend.
My ex-wife and I separated and she suggested that this guy move in to help with the rent (I really did not care at this point). They got together and moved to another state together.
An old gf of mine insisted that I stay with her (female) cousin while in LA on business for 4 days. By day 3, I could not get the cousin off of me (I did not do anything).
If you put two reasonably looking or good looking people together, they will get together or one of them will try.
As far as your boyfriend. Once a cheat, always a cheat.
Sorry.
2006-06-13 05:41:28 · answer #3 · answered by lawman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is out of question babe...
if i were you, i'll leavve bob for good! he's not worth it, coz even he didn't cheat with your sis he'll cheat behind your back with some one else, the posibility for him to do that is waaay to big.
as for your sister, ask her to move out from your place, and let her find her own place to stay...
because i dont hink your sis cae about you that much as you to her, ocz she is so dare to sleep with your bf without a doubt!
dont let her ruin your life further more...she's a grown up lady, surely she could take a good care of her.
you just concentrate on your son n family life.
eventually, you'll find some one a lot better than bob and hell yeah you deserve it babe!!!
keep on moving....
2006-06-12 17:14:12 · answer #4 · answered by lil_cit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing I have found out, never ever ever let another women live with you and your bf or hubby, men are pigs and the women who are living with you have some sort of probs or would not be with you. I would get rid of the bf and I would kick the sis out and let everyone in the family know what a slut she is
2006-06-12 17:04:49 · answer #5 · answered by sweetblonde 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blood is thicker, than mudd! Thats a line sisters dont cross but exspecially boyfriend, she'll always be your sister you cant change that. ( I wouldnt give her an oppurtunity with another) but I would ditch the boyfriend. there are some respect issues going on there.Stop it now!
2006-06-12 17:14:11 · answer #6 · answered by angelw/brkwingcrookedhalo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
family is family, but men come and go i mean u have the right to be mad at your sister long as u want and someday forgive her but u dont need a man thats going to let something like that happens when he tells u that he loves u ,so find a real man they are out there!
2006-06-12 17:07:51 · answer #7 · answered by lynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the boyfriend. You, unfortunately, cannot dismiss your sister. She's blood, she's family. Plus, your sister needs to do some serious butt-kissing!
2006-06-12 17:06:26 · answer #8 · answered by mx3baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would just get rid of him. If he has been unfaithful in the past that should tell u something. once a cheat always a cheat.
2006-06-12 17:06:44 · answer #9 · answered by ice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you want,you cant make it go away can you,first get rid of your guy then tell your sis to find a place of her own,then find new guy,p.s.make sure sis doesent sleep with this one by giving lots of sex including oral and anal,lots of luck
2006-06-12 17:27:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋