2006-06-12 16:55:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
well this is just to survey. to see if people today really fall in true love or not. LOVE IS PATIENT! And now abstinence is the smartest and the most respectable way to live.
2006-06-12 17:00:19 · update #1
I've been keeping that very important gift for my fiance, it's all her's after we get married.
I never cheated on her before I knew her, so I can trust myself and so ca she, that I will not cheat on her after marriage.
I plan on waiting the day after we get married to consumate.
The wedding night in bed will be non-sexual but will a emotionaly/psycological time of intimacy, but the next morning, really early... whoo hoo.
2006-06-12 17:02:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Be realistic. Love is not patient. Love likes instant gratification. Love wants to be with the person right now, not later. If you could stand putting off love, you don't really love the person. Love longs for the person. It doesn't wait.
I didn't wait, and neither did my husband. And you know what? It was fine. I appreciate my husband that much more because I know he loves me. He appreciates me that much more because he knows that I'm different than his exes.
Neither of us have an STD, neither of us had an unplanned pregnancy, neither of us had our hearts broken.
Know something else? The wedding night wasn't all that impressive. I'd had no sleep the night before, I was tired and irritated, he was tired and irritated and we just wanted to sleep. We had sex just on principle. It wasn't magical and it wasn't earth shattering.
It isn't all that important to save sex for marriage. And I really dislike when people tell me that the only kind of sex and love that matters for anything is sex and love within marriage. Clearly, such people have no idea what they're talking about. I've got life experience to base my opinion upon. What do they have to base their opinion on? Some stupid cliches that their youth pastor told them? I don't appreciate being patronized.
2006-06-13 00:14:25 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't wait for marriage, but did wait for the right person and we will be getting married next year. it's close enough and I am very happy that I have waited. She didn't though, but it's almost impossible to find a woman over the age of 14 that's a virgin. I always laugh when I hear about someone talk about a woman over the age of 20 as being a virgin. Only a fool would believe such nonsense.
2006-06-12 23:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by spudric13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope. why would you enter a contract to be with someone before you even know whether you fit well together? if the sex is lousy, the relationship will never be great. why spend months or years on a relationship that will just fall apart when you realize you'll never have good sex together? it's better to know what you're getting before you sign your life away.
you wouldn't buy a car without test-driving it, would you?
2006-06-13 00:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by krys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! Yes, I'm waiting for a special soul mate who can stand my high energetic vibrational frequency. I'm 30 and will wait as long as I need to...whether it be tomorrow or never. I know what I deserve-the best and absolutely will NOT settle for anything less than absolute TRUE LOVE!
2006-06-13 00:09:41 · answer #5 · answered by ******** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I did and so did he, it was a wonderful awakening of the senses and exploration of urges. Sadly, we are no longer together, but I would definitely suggest to anyone to save themselves for marriage.
2006-06-12 23:58:42 · answer #6 · answered by bye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no I tried it out when I was 13 and really liked it so by the time I got married I had plenty of experience to share.
2006-06-13 00:00:05 · answer #7 · answered by foxy lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didnt wait for marriage. but close enough. i waited for someone really special first. someone i saw myself marrying. even though its 7 years later and we're not together anymore i dont ever regret doing it then.
2006-06-13 00:14:05 · answer #8 · answered by cindyanne41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 16 im saving my self for some one special i dont care for the sex i care for the bond that me and future man will have that is if there is one that fits my expectations and will understand me.
2006-06-12 23:58:14 · answer #9 · answered by MEGAN THE PLAYFUL SPIRIT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We didn't then we did and it was the best decision we ever made. I trust him implicitly. I wish we would have really waited.
2006-06-13 00:00:01 · answer #10 · answered by jaemers24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋