2006-06-12 16:22:50 · 16 answers · asked by a_snowe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First - get in shape
2- try to stay away from criticism of any kind for at least a week
3 - use creative ways to get his attention that you have never tried before....you could leave a trail of Post It Notes all over the house leading to your walk in closet where you would be waiting in your new Victoria Secret set.
4 - I know the baby will take much of your time but also do try to dedicate time just for him (even if its just sitting and listening about his problems at work for 15 minutes).
5 - Don't let him pass you by without smiling at him regardless of the place and time (and yes sometimes you will be tired and exhausted but smiling is the least energy consuming item on your list)
6 - The rest will come spontaneously
2006-06-12 16:35:11 · answer #1 · answered by gudrun077 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your hormones may cause you some issues occasionally but what you could do is one evening after the baby is down for the night, put on something that makes you feel good about yourself.
Plan a late night dessert together there at your house but have it maybe outside on your patio or in your bed, somewhere different.
Talk about some things that the two of you have done in the past sexually that turned you on! He needs to tell you what excites him and you also need to tell him. You will both become excited talking about this and once the dessert is done, you can move on to each other!
Good luck and congratulations on the baby!
2006-06-13 11:59:29 · answer #2 · answered by Ekimo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you it's going to take you a while to get back the way it was. Remember you are dealing with baby that cries needs diaper changing and so on. Just try to make time or something romantic and unfortunately it might come out the wrong way but, for the next year you will normally have nothing but quickies. You just don't have the same time you did. But in time you will be fine, I have two kids and my youngest is 3 1/2 and to be honest with you we just got back to the way we were about 7-8 months ago.
2006-06-12 23:30:28 · answer #3 · answered by muneca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish i could answer this question because thats my problem rite now for the longest i didn't feel like it had a c section and my hormones were lost i guess now that my hormones are back the baby always cries at the wrong moment during the middle even had to stop during the middle because i can't stand her crying like my husband does it is very hard to be romantic again i like the grandma idea i read that is a good answer but unfortunately our child is not able to go to her house long story. i hope you will get an answer i would say late late at nite after the baby is in deep sleep but by then you'll be to ehausted Thanks for asking thsi question though i asked it a few months ago but it got erased because i used the word horny. Godbless you and your family and little one!
2006-06-12 23:39:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Just a suggestion. Might help if you do the things you did before you had the child. Sometimes people feel a little neglected when there is a new child even, other children in your family. I know it might seem difficult, but take care of yourself as you did before, watch the food intake,keep clean and set aside some time for you and your other to have fun, bike ride, fish, camp movies other couples. Just a thought
2006-06-12 23:29:38 · answer #5 · answered by Twlight Zone2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't feel sexy smelling like your baby....I know. Set a date night and find a baby sitter. Make sure that day, you take a nice hot bath, shave, get your hair and your nails done (You can do it yourself if money's tight), do your make up, put some nice perfume on, sexy underwears, whatever makes you feel sexy. When you are out with him, just give him the eyes and gently touch his hands on occasions (like in the car, waiting for your dinner at a resturant, etc.). When you feel sexy and confident, your husband will feel the vibe and he won't be able to wait and get you undressed.
2006-06-13 00:06:06 · answer #6 · answered by vinella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says you cant have hot intimacy in the bedroom now? Sure you can: just got to be a bit safe with it....but sex can still be just as fun for you both.
2006-06-12 23:26:24 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well try new positions let the baby go to its grandparents one night a week and have some romance for once..........
2006-06-12 23:28:03 · answer #8 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play the commericial game, watch your favorite hour or so long show together, during each commerical do anything and everything to each other but have sex, when you can't take it anymore go for it
2006-06-12 23:26:11 · answer #9 · answered by Carmalee F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just chill out and masterbate while she recovers from the experiece of giving birth to a kid, she's probably sleepy too.
2006-06-12 23:25:12 · answer #10 · answered by sweetie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋