i tried to have sex with my bf but it hurt ,,so only half went in...u think if im drunk i wont feel anything? what should i do..im freaking out!
2006-06-12 16:18:47 · 11 answers · asked by lauren 4 in Health ➔ Women's Health
dont worry all girls feel that at first time sex
2006-06-12 18:00:27 · answer #1 · answered by lovedesigns_d 1 · 6⤊ 3⤋
it just common that sex will hurt the first time for girls. it just something new and you will have to try more. everybody different with how it feels to them when having sex. some girls it will hurt others it will feel fine. not sure if being drunk will make a difference. the only way to find out is try it though i guess.
2006-06-12 23:24:02 · answer #2 · answered by jacoboctober11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
was it your first time?? usually it hurts the first time.
were you lubricated enough?? if you were dry then it will make sex more difficult.
don't have sex when you are drunk! drinking doesn't help anything. sex it much better when both people are sober and in love. did you tell your b/f that it hurt?? was he at least understanding?? when i tell my b/f that certain sexual things hurt he stops right away....whether it is just a position change or stopping completely....there is no complaining or anger from him....he does it b/c he loves me and doesn't want to see me uncomfortable.
2006-06-12 23:25:24 · answer #3 · answered by dhw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's like your first time, then don't worry, it's normal to hurt the first time and several times after that. I've been active for a few years now and sometimes it still hurts. Try some lube and tell him to be really gentle
2006-06-12 23:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by just me. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is your first time having sex than that is normal and it will hurt for a couple of more times. If this is not then try relaxing, the best way is to have and orgasm before you have intercourse.
2006-06-13 01:33:22 · answer #5 · answered by Annie J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not normal.
It sounds like you were not properly lubricated.
Next time, either enguage in more foreplay untill you are nice and wet, or use some comercially avalible sexual / personal lubricant, like KY, but never use anything containing petrolium jelly.
2006-06-13 02:32:13 · answer #6 · answered by ***** 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gee, miss.... sounds like ur a bit conflicted... actually, alcohol is gonna make it hurt in the morning anyway... i say practice makes perfect... try inserting something small to large... should work...
2006-06-12 23:32:39 · answer #7 · answered by Teacher George 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see a doctor
2006-06-12 23:51:38 · answer #8 · answered by Sharon S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't have sex for a while. there is oveisly something wrong. gosee a docter.
2006-06-12 23:23:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will feel it the next day.
2006-06-12 23:24:23 · answer #10 · answered by taz48 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋