We liked the sex and he liked the special attention an 18 year old requires. He went with his peers at times overnight, but would always come home the next day. I know he wants to use meth and I gave him a choice as I quit. He moved in with his dad who lets him go out for 2-3 nights and doesn't question his activities. Recently, his dad called to see if I knew where he was. I of course didn't know. I know he has to play once in a while, but his dad really needs him lately to renovate their new house. His selfishness not only existed with me, but apparently with his dad too. I just told his dad not to worry he will come home. I feel that I have to let this guy go as much as possible. I miss his company and the sex, but he needs more nurturing from daddy and also needs to play with peers more often. I will always be a friend, but to his disappointment I want to end the extra benefits. Should I?
2006-06-12 16:16:06 · 3 answers · asked by G.. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Absolutely, he's looking for surrogate parents and you're looking for a partner. You don't have to have a showdown about it's me or the meth, just tell him it's not fun anymore.
2006-06-12 16:20:59 · answer #1 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's on the wrong track DAD isn't helping. I'd tell him to get his head out or else he's out.
2006-06-12 16:23:14 · answer #2 · answered by thresher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe its your fault, but because he's the way he is u can have him raped around ur finger tell him what to do...he'll listen
2006-06-12 16:22:43 · answer #3 · answered by Nece Muniz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋