She apparently had some unfullfilled fantasies. I don't have a problem with it except that now with me she want's to be little miss angel. Says that with me its special and she doesn't want that in her life. Thats fine too but hell she won't even talk dirty to me. All in all I quess it just kinda hurts my feelings that she can't turn loose with me like she does with others. By the way our sex is great just kinda simple compared to others I've been with. Anybody else ever have any problems similar to this, any suggestions?
2006-06-12 16:12:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First and foremost, have you both been tested for sexually transmitted diseases? Especially concerning her previous behavior. That is not exactly monogamous sex. How does she know you want her to act more adventurous if you do not tell her. Was lack of communication part of the reason for your separation? I suggest marriage counseling as well.
2006-06-12 16:22:30 · answer #1 · answered by ryzent 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she feels that you are everything to her and she does not want to share that experience with anyone else. My ex always wanted a three some when we were married and I could never do it. After we were divorced I had some aquintnances suggest a "one-night stand" thing. It was okay, but awkward and I would never want to do it again, and NOT with whoever I was intimate with. It was more of just an experience than anything. I am still not sure if I regret it or not. I think she is like me in that aspect and wants to keep you to herself. Give her time and let her open up. If she took that step she is working on finding out who she is and when she does you will not regret it.
2006-06-13 12:39:13 · answer #2 · answered by wyldfyre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really think your marriage will benefit from the lifestyle of swinging?? From what you say, she's sown the wild oats now and no longer wants such an arrangement anymore, which is OK.
If you think you both can swing, and you want to try it, tell her that you want to try this special lifestyle with her; that no matter what--your heart and soul will always be hers.
I think it's only fair; seeing's she's already tripped down that lane, only without you--that she should let you peek into that world too.
2006-06-12 23:18:57 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she tell you about her 'threeways'? Otherwise it's all hearsay. You've reconciled, forgive her or it'll never work.
2006-06-12 23:16:18 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
back up three yards and punt, and i was not involved in that, dont care what she says
2006-06-12 23:21:21 · answer #5 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope never had this kind of problem
2006-06-12 23:19:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she got mature you should too!
2006-06-12 23:56:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋