2006-06-12 16:10:28 · 10 answers · asked by PHS chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What type of person you are attracted to is a matter of preference. You mention that you are mixed with black, this is not a prerequisite to dating black guys. You have the right to date anyone that you want to. Obviously you embrace your heritage, and are not trying to deny who you are. If you are comfortable with your dating style that's all that matters. Don't let anyone make you feel as though you have to date one race or the other.
2006-06-12 16:18:13 · answer #1 · answered by nikkij 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be a couple of things. On a simple level, maybe that's just how you feel about it, that's just who you're attracted to...nothing wrong with that, we all have our preferences. There's no rule saying that just because you're part whatever you have to be attracted to that part of you.
On a deeper level...I don't know your particular situation, but I've noticed that w/ women who are mixed, the dad was usually black and usually out of the picture. They then develop a very deep resentment towards *all* black men, to them black men=abandoment. I've come across this more than once. The other scenerio could be cultural. Unfortunately there are still a lot of negative stereotypes surrounding black people (even more unfortunately, some of us don't exactly help matters...all these so-called "thugs"...) and so one way of distancing yourself from that is by being with white guys. I'm not passing judgment one way or the other on this. Could just be a possibility.
Either way, just remember this- if you're part black, people see you as being black, and will treat you occordingly. Sad but true. Do a Yahoo! search or go to Wikipedia to look up "one drop rule". Take care and best of luck.
2006-06-12 16:30:41 · answer #2 · answered by ?uest 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have only had good experiences with white guys. Maybe the culture of a white person is more appealing to you than that of a black man.
Personal preferance has a lot to do with it. I always say that it is the person that I like. Looks aren't everything :)
2006-06-12 16:16:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with liking white boys , ask a black guy why he love white women so much.................
2006-06-12 16:14:55 · answer #4 · answered by statenislanddreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing wrong with that it is just what you prefer. Alot of people dont like to date the same race. It makes life interesting and it makes beautiful babies.
2006-06-12 16:21:20 · answer #5 · answered by Bay Area Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what your race is doesn't really determine what you like. i would really prefer a someone outside my race. when i was younger (10-12yrs) i always liked looking at girls outside my race, but i didn,t know why at that time.
2006-06-12 16:18:16 · answer #6 · answered by Han_dang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with u u just know what u like sweety go with what u feel
2006-06-12 16:36:21 · answer #7 · answered by omarionsgirl1983 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone is differnt. just cause your black doesnt mean u have to like black men. and just cause your fat doesnt mean u have to like eating.
2006-06-12 16:14:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's just the way the acorn falls from the tree.
2006-06-12 16:14:39 · answer #9 · answered by Sandman23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fetish....or whats the word jungle fever....cliche cliche we are all drawn to the opposite
2006-06-12 16:13:51 · answer #10 · answered by reenie c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋