my fiancee is pregnant and she's just starting to show. she walks out of the house lately wearing bath towel mumus and flip-flops while her hair is totally screwed up and pulled usually 2 one side! she took her kidz 2 school like that sometimes!!!!! i donot want mah woman 2 be a skanky britony spears clone. esp. since my neighbor iz a midget. hlep!
2006-06-12 15:56:04 · 18 answers · asked by Blonde Piaga 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Dont you know how to treat women? Beat that b*tch until she is forced to agree with you. My husband of 15 years does that to me and it is the only thing that works sometimes.
2006-06-17 18:36:13 · answer #1 · answered by Man Coon 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, for starters I suggest that you ease off a bit because its not all fun and games being pregnant. She deserves to be comfy. I've been there done that. Let her relax around the house in those clothes if she wants. I do agree that you have to look decent when you go out in public, but remember you have to love your woman for who she is on the inside. Flip-flops are becoming very popular in the fashion world. Now if they're ratty and old, then she does need to get new flip-flops or whatever. I would suggest you go shopping and show her what you like on her. If she chooses something you like on her own, praise her with sweet kisses, roses, and/or some love making when you get home ;) Compliment her on the things SHE DOES WEAR already that you like. It will give her some ideas, especially when it turns her man on. About the hair, make some suggestions as well. I would suggest that her hair is half-up/half-down and the top section of hair is divided in two to make double ponytails. It's cute and a happy medium if her hair is styled to the side. I think. You could also take her to a hair salon and ask them to style it for her. Kind of like pampering. If she gets angry about all this, leave the room for awhile and come back and talk if you think she will. If not, just drop it. She may feel like she shouldn't have to worry about looking good because she has won your heart. On a final note, a stranger in public may comment about her clothes in a bad or constructive way and she may change her ways. Some people are more influenced by the way people talk and think than others. You could also talk to her mom. Daughters and mothers always converse if they are close.
2006-06-12 23:23:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be a reflection of how she feels, how do you treat her? Have you thought of helping her to feel better, try brushing her hair yourself, this can be very relaxing. It feels very nice to have someone wash your hair while sitting in a tub, pour a bucket of water gently over her head, while you are out of the tub so she doesn't feel pressured for sex, gently massage her shampoo in and gently pour water over her head to rinse, she should tilt her head back some so water and soap don't get in her eyes, light some candles, or play some music that's soothing to her, gently wash her back, and provide a little massage. This will be hard on your knees so think of yourself a little too and get a pillow you don't mind getting wet.
Ask if you could pick her outfit out for her to wear, and sensually help her dress, without the sex pressure.
If she (and most likely she will) does want sex, even better for you. Can you pick up kids periodically? If you are a giving person, you really need to do that even more right now. She'll only love you more for your efforts. Don't ever degrade her appearance, lift her up. Hay babe, I really love it when you look your best, not man you look like trash *****, or a wanna be Brittany on a bad day etc.
2006-06-12 23:25:14 · answer #3 · answered by jondulea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She dresses like that because she feels comfortable and she does not fit in her clothes the same way she use to. You could buy her a nice summer dress and give it to her as a gift, then take her out for a special day. Take her to her favorite restaurant then to get her nails and hair done and last but not least, take her to buy some nice looking but comfortable clothes. You also need to remind her every day how beautiful she is, because she need to hear it more now.
2006-06-12 23:09:20 · answer #4 · answered by lee b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your neighbor being a midget have to do with your chick looking like a skanky Britney Spears? Tell her she is pregnant, she can't dress like she is not pregnant...her belly will give her away, obviously. Be honest. It will make her mad, but do it anyway.
2006-06-23 14:24:27 · answer #5 · answered by Leigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you take her shopping for some maternity clothes or give her the money and let her go. Treat her to a hair salon. She needs to feel good about herself during this time and know that youaccept her changing body. When she does look good, do you tell her?...nicely?
2006-06-22 16:14:25 · answer #6 · answered by spider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does you neighbor being a midget (I think the correct term is little people) have to do with your girlfriend looking like trash?
2006-06-22 16:42:29 · answer #7 · answered by Zina V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you should just talk to her nicely about your concerns. Plus really compliment her when she looks nice and tell her she looks so gorgeous and that you are proud to be with her. Tell her again and again how lucious she looks then and smile and be all flirty with her. She may like that attention and keep up the decent look.
2006-06-12 23:00:10 · answer #8 · answered by just julie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a day of beauty as a thank you for having you kids. And show her you really love her and marry her before you knock her up the next time.
2006-06-20 07:13:07 · answer #9 · answered by Sara K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all learn how to spell and second of all if you don't like the way she looks you probably need to leave her and if you ever want to criticize her on the way she looks wait until after she has her baby pregnant women are very sensitive and one other thing don't refer to her as trash what dumpster did she find you too ?
2006-06-12 23:03:24 · answer #10 · answered by sony93931 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋