im 18 and still a virgin
i dont know why i find both men and women equallt attractive, but i know i could never come out to my parents and family. What should i do because im having problems getting a gf and think it would be easier for me to be with a guy RIGHT NOW.
2006-06-12 15:40:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Do whatever makes you feel right, if you feel uncomfortable saying anything to your parents then don't, maybe your bi-sexual or you could just be going through a phase, there are a lot of sites that can give you any support or advice
GLCC, PFLAG, GLBT, etc.. good luck
2006-06-12 15:44:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel both, go with the girl. It will pay off in the long haul. I'm totally gay so it isn't a big choice, but let me tell you the world is a lot easier if you are straight.
However, remember that by going straight you'll have to lose all sense of style and ability to decorate.
2006-06-12 15:44:21 · answer #2 · answered by fly_your_flag_high 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 18, most of us are still trying to figure out a lot of things...however, if you are more-or-less equally find yourself attracted to both genders (male and female), you are bisexual. If you're going to go to college, don't stress yourself about 'having' to get into a particular kind of relationship. Go out there...literally...and be yourself. I'm confident that you'll have it figured out in the next couple of years!
2006-06-12 15:47:50 · answer #3 · answered by Rev Debi Brady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would maybe just count humans out all together. Maybe try a rabbit. Rabbits are very sexual, very cuddly and very cute. I've made the leap from humans to rabbits and now I've got like 12 bunny friends and my life is content. They don't complain, they listen to me and they don't get jealous. Plus with rabbits, their sex doesn't matter.
2006-06-12 15:47:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont stress so much, just relax and do what feels right. YOu dont have to choose men or women, just try to find people you like and who treat you with respect.
2006-06-12 15:45:29 · answer #5 · answered by Mac Momma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a theripist. Learning who you are can be scary and trying. Good Luck.
2006-06-12 15:43:54 · answer #6 · answered by Evilest_Wendy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about.theres nothing wrong with an 18-year-old being a virgin.your probably straight,most gays know thier gay before thier 18........just dont worry about it.
2006-06-12 15:43:53 · answer #7 · answered by That one guy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 18...if your scared to tell them,do like my step-son..wait til they figure it out.lol...good luck.by the way his mom and dad fussed a few minutes then it hit them that their son is who he has always been.his personal life is his business
2006-06-12 15:48:52 · answer #8 · answered by terryizhere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey. I've got that same problem. e-mail me at junk_mail_100@yahoo.com.au if you wanna talk.
2006-06-12 15:43:23 · answer #9 · answered by junk_mail_100 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
until you experience both sexes thru sex you won't know..when you do..you will know when you know..
2006-06-12 15:43:48 · answer #10 · answered by KT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋