we have a 4mth old baby girl to i love the two of them so
she went to stay with her mom and dad
i am 27 and she is only 20
2006-06-12 15:05:11 · 15 answers · asked by glenn g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Buy here a watch and tell her to get it together. A nice watch though. With Diamonds.
2006-06-12 15:09:34 · answer #1 · answered by 223 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her the space. She's young and she may not be ready right now. I know this myself because I got married at 19 and divorced by 23. She may feel like things are moving a little too fast and then she backed out. Dont try to control her or tell her what to do. Just be patient and wait for her. Remain friends for the baby sake. If you really love her, then wait for her and give her space. Instead of calling every day, call every two or three days for example. Good luck!
2006-06-12 22:20:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely give her some space, she's young and no no matter what people say its hard to be married at that age. Just because she wants some space doesn't mean that she wants out completely (or maybe it could) it may be awkward for awhile but if you are both capable of getting to a better place, its worth the time. And if you don't get things worked out, wouldn't it be better to have the ability to remain friends above all else at least for your child?
2006-06-12 22:10:56 · answer #3 · answered by dannyl410 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you, Precious.
It's not looking too good.
Heed the answers of the people who encouraged you to speak
to her and ask her to be honest with you. If you truly LOVE
someone and are in love with them, you don't leave them
like that.
Don't fret yourself too much. You'll have good days and
bad days. Pour your energy into loving your baby girl and
be thankful the for love that brought her here. LOOK FORWARD
and don't look back. But be kind to her. If she's yours, eventually
it will work out. If not, there is a wonderful woman better
suited for you out there. Take care.
2006-06-12 23:10:34 · answer #4 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't push her. It is easy to get cold feet about gettin married. You need to talk to her and see what is going on. If she was living with you. It sounds a little strange that she would stay with her parents. Maybe though a little time apart. Will make her search her feelings. So that she can decide what to do. Don't push her about getting married. Let her bring it up. Just simpley be there for her.
2006-06-12 22:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by nay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mistake number 1
at 20 she is WAYY to married to get married
at 27 you are also to young
knocking her up was not a intelligent move
fallng in love with your 1st sexual experience is no excuse to get married
do both of you a favor
do not get married
stay single
see the kid
and make your way ( career ) in life
then after 10 years if you got your act together marry her if you must / want
as if you do it now
you only get divorced
at a 80% divorce rate for people in your age bracket
2006-06-12 22:39:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her the time she needs .You are obviously more mature than she is,in age and in mind.It could be that she is just not ready to get married.Be patient,don't constantly ask her if she is ready, her parents may have something to do with her decision as well,Seeing as how she is only 20yrs old.They may think that is to young to get married,and she just may agree with them.Stay in there lives,don't stop the communication between you too because she wants to move home.Just deal with it.
2006-06-12 23:02:40 · answer #7 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her space you know the old saying if you love something let it go if it comes back to you it was yours? you could hang around her and win but she will only resent you one day besides God doesn't force us to love him forced love you won't want in the end because it will haunt you for years! Godbless and pray
2006-06-12 22:18:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with her parents, and most of all just let her know you will always be there. She's scared (young) thinking about what just happened to my life. Take care of your daughter!!!
2006-06-12 22:32:44 · answer #9 · answered by wolf1230pack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her - ask her to be honest with you about how she is feeling. She is your fiance and she has your daughter - you have the right to ask her whats going on, and you have the right to see your daughter. Try talking to her - if she won't talk to you try talking to her mom/dad and see if they know whats going on.
2006-06-12 22:13:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋