cuz my boyfriend wants to do it with me and i herad it hurt shoulnd i take a chance???
2006-06-12 14:45:11 · 18 answers · asked by playbunny 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
How old are you? If you are as young as you appear, then I would urge you to wait. And yes, the first time that girls have intercourse, it can hurt because their hymen is broken.
2006-06-12 14:50:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you ask the question you should not do it. Of course it hurts. And you should not do it just because your boyfriend wants you to do it. Think of it this way if your boyfriend would be having the pain he would not what to have sex or make love. As for a man they don't feel the pain that we women feel. Be in love before you do it. There is no rush. Listen to your own inner feeling. Do you see yourself with him? Will he stay with you? How many girlfriends has he had in pass year? Do you like is family does is family like you? What does he think of your family? You see sex is one think but thinking of everyone else that your sexual encounter will affect is something else. So be careful don't rush. Ask him the questions that would make you feel better. Don't forget LOVE.
2006-06-12 23:02:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it does hurt. But here's the thing like some of the other people said wait till your married. I had sex two months ago with who I thought was the love of my life. Turns out he didn't feel the same way. That was two months ago and I regret that decision more than any one I have ever made in my whole life. And trust me I have made a lot of mistakes. Sex does hurt...depends on the size of the penis and things like that. But it gets better when time goes on!
2006-06-12 22:42:20 · answer #3 · answered by Beth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are ready and trust your boyfriend, then sure. Yes, it does hurt. But I recently discovered that its not terrible ripping pain. Its just pretty much a kinda painful, uncomfortable pressure. You guys just have to take is easy and slow the first few times.
2006-06-12 21:50:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea it hurts the first few times you do it but then it becomes REALLY GOOD...
but i wouldnt have sex until your married because the guy could just use for sex and if you get pregnant chances are he'll run and you'll end up on maury trying to prove paternity...so your better off waiting be responsible and when it feels right you will know.
2006-06-12 21:58:21 · answer #5 · answered by emmabugg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think you are ready for sex, it will hurt the first time, but if you two go slow it can be the most awesome experience, remember your first time you will always remember, so make it special and be sure that it is what you want to do, you can't ever get it back
2006-06-12 21:50:56 · answer #6 · answered by blondsweetbaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT HURTS LIKE HELL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Please wait, if not for yourself for your further husband. I've been with only my husband and he loves the fact that he is the only man that has had me. I didn't wait till we where married, but I waited till I TRULY know I was in love with him. I once dated a guy who I thought I loved and he always wanted me to have sex with him, he would tell me if I didn't do it he would go find it with someone else. I never gave in to him. There where times when I thought about it, and we got really close. But I know I was not in love with him deep down in my heart I know that he did not love me. So I waited. I did not have sex till I was 18 years old. I'm so happy I waited. Please wait for your own sake. :)
2006-06-12 21:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by dohm84 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore your boyfriend, wait till marriage. Huney, you're not gonna feel good about yourself if you do it with your high school sweetheart but wait till marriage and when you meet the right person, you'll be glad you waited for them. It will be so much better I bet.
2006-06-12 21:49:46 · answer #8 · answered by anon1mous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
duh if u too scared to handle the pain tho ur so not ready. But the more u do it the less it hurts but the more of a black hole u become
Oh hang on it depends how big he is cos if he's little its not really gonna hurt that much.
But if he's like a horse u gonna wanna die haha
2006-06-12 21:49:41 · answer #9 · answered by lethal_bitch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it does hurt when the guy doesnt know how to give you pleasure... if you'll ask me and try me.. you'll feel pain and shout OUCH ... but then i will also be able to give you pleassure and satisfaction in making love... coz i know you have tried it... and your just askin it for the sake of askin it and so that you'll start feeling horny.. are you always like that? wow.. how i wish were near...
2006-06-13 12:19:59 · answer #10 · answered by dj ouch ( Cj ) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋