he says he wont marry me because we fight too much and i've told hin to get out too many times since we've been together. what i want to know is, does this sound like your relationship. do you ever tell him you want him to leave but you really dnt you r just mad?
2006-06-12 14:45:05 · 9 answers · asked by chrissy b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes I said it once and he left, my heart ached for years...what a hard lesson to learn!!
2006-06-12 14:48:24 · answer #1 · answered by dawg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have gotten into plenty of trouble saying, "GET OUT"! He would make me so mad, and I used this sentence as a control device, because I "THOUGHT" he would never actually do it. He warned me if I didn't stop, after about 10 years of yelling this, he would not ever come home. Well, me and my big mouth found out he wasn't "whisitling dixie". It was a divorce and a year later before he stepped foot back in to our home. I now have a muzzle near by, so I want ever make that mistake again.
2006-06-12 15:06:54 · answer #2 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i say it when my husband is over critical of me because i feel like i can never live up to his standards. Just today i told him lets get over with it but he knows i don't mean it because even though his judgements hurt me i feel like he loves me but is probably just frustrated because i have annoying habits such as not being able to find my keys when they are in my purse i do this everyday i even annoy myself i wish he was more patient though like me i don't get all in a fuss when he messes up oh well. if i ever think he doesn't love me though i will tell him to get out and mean it because thats my limit! i learned from my first marriage though words are very powerful so i never put my 2nd husband down i can't brag about not calling him names because my first husband really asked for it but no matter how bad a man is don't name call bite your tongue because if you love them that won't help them it will just complicate things and make them think you hate them when your really just sad and expressing it wrong.
2006-06-12 15:24:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my husband is in one of his crappy moods and says he hates living in our house and everything sucks I tell him to get the heck out. I even hold the door open hoping like heck he will finally walk out. But no. He is still here. I guess I'm not as bad as he keeps telling me. I wish he wiould hold the door open for me someday.
2006-06-12 14:52:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it from me he is not going anywhere and i got the ring to prove it i have said the words many many of times he is my soul mate me fight and get mad but if you and him love each other nothing else matters good luck e-mail when you get that ring
2006-06-12 14:53:10 · answer #5 · answered by demetrius n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never 0 you should never say anything to another you cant stand for them to say to you. if he married you time you get mad get out this way he cant be put out if he wasnt in smart man
2006-06-12 15:14:31 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only said it once and I meant every word of it. He left and wasn't allowed back in. He lost his mind thinking he was gonna put stress in my life.
2006-06-12 14:49:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY GIRLFREND AND I SAY THIS ALL THE TIME. WE HAVE 9 YRS TOGETHER. I DON'T KNOW. GOOD TIMES ARE LONGER THAT THE TIMES YOU FIGHT?. I MEAN I HAVE DEPRESSIVE MOODS AND THATS WHY I TELL HER THIS. MAYBE, YOU JUST NEED TO TALK THINGS OVER WITH HIM AND GET SOME SPACE TOO. IDON'T KNOW.
2006-06-12 14:52:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooooooooooooo yeah just today he told me to move out and find somewhere to go and then he came home and didnt want me to just LEave like he said he talked it out with me. this happens
2006-06-12 14:52:13 · answer #9 · answered by gaurdianangelic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋