2006-06-12 14:44:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Worry about your own self and let your best friend take care and worry about her own past. It's not up to you. Move on.
2006-06-12 14:48:47 · answer #1 · answered by spoiled_042003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my boyfriend is the same. he gets jealous when it comes to my ex's & any other guys that like me. he just couldnt control himself before. but i talked to him about it & after a while he slowly got better. he used to get really mad when i even hugged another guy but now hes a lil more calm about it. he said he still get jealous but its not as bad as before. so baby steps ok?
just remind yourself that the girl was his EX for a reason. & if he didnt wanna be with u, he would of left u already. but he loves/cares about u & is with YOU not her. if you think he may still have feelings for her then talk to him about it. let him know that ur a lil worried and dont mean to sound jealous (cuz jealousy is a turn off) & explain to him how u feel.
its best to talk him about it. cuz i think it helps if u hear him say that he wants u not her. maybe u already know it but sometimes hearing it helps.
but try not to get 2 jealous all the time ok. no body likes it when their bf/gf is jealous. i almost brok up with my bf over that. but we talked about it & got everything cleared up. personally, im not the jealous type. i have no prob with my bf's exs & am actually good friends with one of em :)
good luck 2 ya.
2006-06-12 14:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by Jam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually jealousy stems from our own insecurities. You need to look inside and face what the real problem is. I bet you already know. Are you afraid he still loves her? Do you think she is better than you? What is it about her that threatens you so much?
Face the truth and you can overcome it or accept that you can't and find a new bf.
2006-06-12 14:52:38 · answer #3 · answered by harryt62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. When I met my boyfriend he had a girl in California that was getting ready to move here for him. He met me and decided he would rather be with me and told her not to move out here. Since than she posts messages on his myspace like "what do your parents think about you not marrying me" blah blah blah. I would say I was extremely threatned by her. The best advice I have is to just breathe and realise she is his ex for a reason and he chooses to still be with you (or he wouldn't be) Just be greatful for him everyday.
2006-06-12 15:18:14 · answer #4 · answered by ashez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋